"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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girls want a real man? this doesnt make sense then

Aboleo

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jocca said:
The way some people are talking it seems you cant dress the way you like and be considered a man :rolleyes:
Try this outfit on for size and we will see how manly you look: http://i38.photobucket.com/albums/e104/Y2JPD/Faggot.jpg

I don't mean you any offence, I'm just saying. If it looks like a duck... well, you know the rest. This is an extreame example, but I think you get the point. ;)

And don't start with me on being homophobic. One of my best friends is gay. I'm just making this clear right now, I have nothing against gays.

If the fashion has anything to do with it, it is because it makes them stand out from the tamid masses. Same thing with the "Peacocking" technique.

For example,

"Law 34. Be Royal in your Own Fashion: Act like a King to be treated like one

The way you carry yourself will often determine how you are treated; In the long run, appearing vulgar or common will make people disrespect you. For a king respects himself and inspires the same sentiment in others. By acting regally and confident of your powers, you make yourself seem destined to wear a crown."-- Robert Greene, the 48 Laws of Power


What you wear does matter, and it is a fine line to walk without attracting the wrong kind of attention, if you know what I mean. Myself, I'm a very conservative dresser... but thats just me.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Answers said:
My opinion of it is that these boys are following fashion trends. Its like the person who needs a big car and a big house to make them feel good. A real man does not need things to make him feel good he feels good about himself anyway.

Young girls like these metrosexuals but do women? I bet older more mature women who have come across many more men know what a real man is and see these boys for what they are.

How many older women have pictures of boybands up on their walls??
depends on what u mean by young girls i saw some big macho manly built looking guys wearing fluro singlets checkered shorts and white slip ons as metro as u can get and they had girls FLOCKING to them and they looked atleast 21-24
 

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Yeah man I live in Sydney and all I see day in and day out, is guys in fluro singlets, short jeans folded up way above the knee and thongs, flip flops for you yanks and those wack sunnies that make their face look retarded.
It just looks weird.
 

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It's about the "story" you tell with your look. wearing average clothes like anyone else makes for a boring story.
 
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