"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls W/ Head Phones In their Ears.....

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This is kind of ridiculous. Why do girls wear earplugs or earphones, call it what you wish everytime I have the opportune time to try and Spit Some Game...i mean this is just ridiculous. What should I do when they have headphones in??? It would feel kind of odd to say, hey when they're listening to music. Should I just say forget it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My advice would be to catch them at a time when they're not listening to music. Or if you must, sit next to them and do some work for a few minutes and then tap them on the shoulder and casually ask them if they know how to do a math problem or something. If she's not interested, she'll just put her headphones back on after she's finished answering you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DRY ERASE BOARD, CELL PHONE-type a text message and show her your phone, talk softly so she cant really hear you, motion to take her ear buds out, pretend to use sign language, pretend to tell a secret to a person sitting across from her in clear view while pointing at her, wait for silent gap between songs, talk louder..........any of these should work with some degree of success.
 
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