"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls under 30 live in filth and have evil, backstabbing roommates

Vice

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Quote from A. McG. over at an article on Return of Kings:

A. McG. said:
Pro-tip: If you are under the age of 30, don't go back to a girl's place. She will be living in filth and have two evil, backstabbing, roommates who will ****-block and/or sabotage relationships/arrangements before they start. (In reading that, you probably thought I was referring to one incident, but... no.)".
I just realized that this is absolutely true, and many women tend to have messy living areas. What the hell? This drove me INSANE; my ex would leave clothes all over the floor, random half-finished cups/glasses of liquid, put her phone in a different place each time so she would waste time looking for it, etc.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hockeyfreak79

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Yeah, once they get comfortable I suppose this can be true. I can't say much my place isn't always 100% tidy. I dated a Latina that was a neat freak except her room? She would come over to my place and clean & do laundry, sweet sweet girl. I guess I have been lucky the last couple under 30 had pretty decent places.
Agreed 100% about roomate broads, dude dumps 1 & ends up with the other imagine that.
 

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Ha I agree, but come to think of the the girls who fit that description, were just chicks I wanted hit it and go!
 
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