"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girls trying to talk about her personal problems

Bobby bouch'e

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Hey new here! I was wondering how you guys handle it when a girl your trying to game tries to talk to you about her personal problems, which can get you friend zone'd fast.just be really short and formal with her? Any replies are much appreciated.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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logicallefty

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It sure can get you friendzoned. I agree with @backseatjuan in that you should change the subject to something positive. Another thing you can do if she won't lay off is something like this:

HB: I got all these problems no job, no car, by ex is a jerk bla bla bla whine whine whine
LL: Hey! Our time together is limited today and who knows when we will hang out again. Can we talk about happier things?

That will get the hamster going and she will be wondering "what does he mean he doesnt know when we will hang out again? Doesn't he like me? What's wrong with me?" (hamster goes into overdrive and she works extra hard to secure another date with you).
 
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