Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girls trying to talk about her personal problems

Bobby bouch'e

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Hey new here! I was wondering how you guys handle it when a girl your trying to game tries to talk to you about her personal problems, which can get you friend zone'd fast.just be really short and formal with her? Any replies are much appreciated.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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logicallefty

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It sure can get you friendzoned. I agree with @backseatjuan in that you should change the subject to something positive. Another thing you can do if she won't lay off is something like this:

HB: I got all these problems no job, no car, by ex is a jerk bla bla bla whine whine whine
LL: Hey! Our time together is limited today and who knows when we will hang out again. Can we talk about happier things?

That will get the hamster going and she will be wondering "what does he mean he doesnt know when we will hang out again? Doesn't he like me? What's wrong with me?" (hamster goes into overdrive and she works extra hard to secure another date with you).
 
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