"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girls think bout guys with tattoos

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Right before the end of spring break im planning on getting a black white cross tattoo on my left upper arm and going to the tanning salon n get a tan. Whats good bout dat is you can fake and tell every1 that I went to florida or some **** so that I don't sound gay lol. But anyways just wanted to know how girls reacts to boys with tattoos especially in high school. Also if you can give me some symbols or advice on tattoos would be greatly appreciated.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think girls usually like tattoos because they're a characteristic of the "bad boy," and they show that you can take pain (even though tattoos don't hurt at all, haha).


The only recommendation I have is to stay away from tribal tattoos (overdone), and any Japanese or Chinese characters (overdone).

Other than that...:rockon:
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
WTF man ?
If you do a tattoo do it for yourself. Do it because you like , not to look "BAD BOY" and sh1t.
And about what they thing .. FUCK WHAT THEY THINK , it doesnt matter. All it matters is what you think and are you comfortable with it.
tru...you got a good point
 

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Yes, Daddy's got it right. Get tattoos because you want them... not because you want to get laid. It'd be cheaper to pay for a hooker, if you think about it.

Apocalypse Now - I only have one tatt... and it tickled! LOL
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It depends on the girl. Some girls are turned off by tattoos and other girls absolutely love them.
 

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Do it for yourself, not for a girl. And never go tanning with a brand new tattoo.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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if you plan to get a tattoo... think about it, because it will either be there for the rest of your life OR you will have to cover it up with another one when you decide you hate it.
so pick one that resembles yourself, or what you stand for...
 

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OTB said:
Sounds like you've had quite a bad experience with that... :crackup:

May I ask what exactly happened?
Exposure to sun light/tanning beds will fade out the tattoo. They tell you to use suntan lotion if you go outside in the sun. My cousin was a dumbass and got a tattoo before vacation. The sun almost completely faded his brand new tattoo.
 

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Please man, don't get a cross. That is so over done. Unless you take your religion seriously and it means something significant to you. No tribal tattoos, no HIM symbols (that seems to be the big thing here), and for Christ sake no skulls/crossbones or **** with flames. Other than that, I think you're pretty much set. Try and get something that means something to you, and get it because YOU want it, not to get chicks.
 

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Scars said:
Please man, don't get a cross. That is so over done. Unless you take your religion seriously and it means something significant to you. No tribal tattoos, no HIM symbols (that seems to be the big thing here), and for Christ sake no skulls/crossbones or **** with flames. Other than that, I think you're pretty much set. Try and get something that means something to you, and get it because YOU want it, not to get chicks.
The reason why i wanted a cross cause it symbolizes faith and hope, which i find significant, and it is hard to regret not takin that off cause I kinda take religion seriously, I mean I go to church once in a while. But im not sure I gotta go to the tattoo store and see what styles they got...Im making my decision this week or next.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Daddy The Pimp said:
There's a thread on Anything Else Forum with 3d tattoos. I think they are pretty cool :D
werrdd thanks ill take a look
 

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OTB said:
Sounds like you've had quite a bad experience with that... :crackup:

May I ask what exactly happened?
It's not that I had a bad experience. The OP had mentioned he wanted to get a tattoo and a tan. Just didnt want him to get the tan after dropping good money just to wreck it. Like Paintballguy said tanning fades the ink.
 

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and do your research on the artist if you dont feel comfortable than dont go with him.You also have to be assertive of what you want I wasnt and I have a tatt that sucks and I am thinking about getting it removed and done over agian. Most def make sure the person your working with is good at what you want like some are good with letters and other good at coloring and others good at portraits.
 

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Things to avoid with a fresh tat: tanning salons, hot tubs, swimming pools, seawater (im not sure if its bad or not, but unless you hear otherwise, assume it is), anything with zinc oxide in it, direct sunlight in general, fragrant soaps and lotions. Basically, keep it completely sheltered other than your ointment.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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