"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girls they remember EVERYTHING

christz

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i find it frikkin amazeing, i thought i had a good memory but girls they seem to remember ever single detail big OR small.

even things as insignificant as something i said about a certian movie 3 weeks ago. its insane. And on that note, i notice that girls remember things about the relationships they've had pretty much everything if its been a few years they remember all the major details and none of the small ones.

but the one thing is, no matter how many weeks/months/years have passed they remember how they felt at one time for a person as well So i got to thinking, if they can remember how they felt at one time. the way you acted during that time

could you ever re light the fire?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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christz

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Originally posted by diablo
You've never seen ex's get back together? Or gotten back together with one? :rolleyes:
i have but it never works out because they always revert back to the way they were when things went bad

and me personally no i've never gotten back with an ex
 

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Not all girls are like that. Some of them have selective memories. Especially when it's something factual you did and they turn around and try to use it as leverage in an argument.
 

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Originally posted by sux2bu
Not all girls are like that. Some of them have selective memories. Especially when it's something factual you did and they turn around and try to use it as leverage in an argument.
I HATE THAT ****!!!!!:mad: :mad: :mad:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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