“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Captain Obvious

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I went on a date with this girl a couple of times a while back. Then she got a boyfriend, so, naturally, I moved on. However, now I heard that she's single again, and I'd like to set up a date with her if she is. How do I handle this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chosen1

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Well, I'm not the greatest when it comes to relationships I would just call her she probably remembers you if she doesn't i would move on if she does tell her you had something planned and would love for her to join you and always keep cool my friend
 
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Well, if she sees you as a friend, then I dont know. She selected a boyfriend over you while you were dating her, that means she saw you as a friend and you were friendzoned. Sounds like oneitis on her, try to meet more women.
 

Captain Obvious

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Luke Skywalker said:
Well, if she sees you as a friend, then I dont know. She selected a boyfriend over you while you were dating her, that means she saw you as a friend and you were friendzoned. Sounds like oneitis on her, try to meet more women.
eh, not really. it was more like I just stopped calling her. she had a boyfriend even WHILE we went out, but I didn't know about it. we always cuddled and kissed a little bit, and she always seemed like she was holding back something that she REALLY wanted to do, you know. by that I mean sexually. I found out why, later, cause she didn't want to cheat. that's why I quit calling her.

so... I dunno how I handle this now, since I kinda cut it off.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rocker

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Captain Obvious said:
eh, not really. it was more like I just stopped calling her. she had a boyfriend even WHILE we went out, but I didn't know about it. we always cuddled and kissed a little bit, and she always seemed like she was holding back something that she REALLY wanted to do, you know. by that I mean sexually. I found out why, later, cause she didn't want to cheat. that's why I quit calling her.

so... I dunno how I handle this now, since I kinda cut it off.
Yeah, because seeing other guys and cuddling and kissing doesn't count as cheating does it?
:whistle:
 

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Ya I agree with others - don't think you'll get too far. Sounds like she didn't like you.
 
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