"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls that sleep with guys in their social circle

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Would you guys date a girl that has been (sexually) with one other guy in your social circle? Kind of like a homey hopper but she has only been with 1 other guy.

Ive heard it said that women generally date within their social circle. Well this brings about problems for obvious reasons. I have found that the more i expand my social circle the more i run into this problem. Its like the girls that are DTF are DTF with other attractive guys in the social circle too.

There is this one girl i like that i have been seeing. She dated another guy in the social circle but i dont really see that guy at all anymore. But it is still kinda weird. This girl is quite selective and i have seen her turn down a lot of di*k. She just states that she would rather date guys that she knows than date a random stranger. Idk what do yall think
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dear Pandora,
Seems pretty normal to me...So she likes to feel a bit secure about a Guy before she sleeps with him...OK,that's her style....then she is a bit disappointed with one that she tries...Next it's your turn in the barrel Jim Lad LOL.
 
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Probably not going to be LTR material though. She is probably used to the pattern of picking from the group. New guy friend joins group, new potential c0ck source.
 
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I've sort of been in a situation like this before when I was in high school. 2 of my good friends at the time time dated the same girl, one after the other. After the 2nd one broke up with her, she started being a little more friendly to me which I could easily see where this was going. At best, she was probably an HB5. I had only heard she'd occasionally give a hand job, nothing else so I remember thinking unless she was giving everything up, what the hell would I want with her? The other thing I realized was, why would I want her after my 2 friends were done using her? It reminds me of some porn scenes where a girl gets gangbanged and I would have been the 3rd guy in line. Blech. I passed on her though.

These days, as an adult, you have to realize women have had some d!ck in their life in some manner. If stuff goes south, will this social circle of yours be able to still be the same?
 
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