"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girls that never initiate...keep plowing or erase the number?

Junkyard

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Im talking to a girl and she NEVER initiates anything but she does respond to my texts. Ive been on 2 dates with her and k-closed on the 1st. I haven't seen her in a month though. When I go for a meet up, she makes an excuse as to why she can't. So I know attraction is very low. Should I just erase the number and move on, or keep plowing with low investment texts to rebuild attraction and then ask her out again? I'm not talking about texting them everyday, but mixing it up every couple days or even letting a week or two pass by. The thing that bugs me is that our last date a month ago, she mentioned a few times that we should do this and that. There was also lots of kino and kissing. Im getting mixed signals.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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