Im talking to a girl and she NEVER initiates anything but she does respond to my texts. Ive been on 2 dates with her and k-closed on the 1st. I haven't seen her in a month though. When I go for a meet up, she makes an excuse as to why she can't. So I know attraction is very low. Should I just erase the number and move on, or keep plowing with low investment texts to rebuild attraction and then ask her out again? I'm not talking about texting them everyday, but mixing it up every couple days or even letting a week or two pass by. The thing that bugs me is that our last date a month ago, she mentioned a few times that we should do this and that. There was also lots of kino and kissing. Im getting mixed signals.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Girls that never initiate...keep plowing or erase the number?
- Thread starter Junkyard
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