Girls that insist you to call them,but don´t call you

[JdelaSilviera]

Hi guys,

I would like to know if you understand this phenomena.... Some girls will insist you to call them, and will even be pissed off when you go for weeks without a phone call, but the strange thing is that they don´t call you... I mean they also have your number lol and I´m sure they call other people.

Some girls I know that are "afraid" that you don´t pick up the phone and it´s a somewhat humilliating experience, almost rejection to them.... But could something else be going on? Like just attention whoring etc..

 

[L B]

You talking about girls your dating and sleeping with or the regular friends that you use to hookup with hotter friends?

Don't tell me you're talking about girls that are stringing you along for attention. You need to immediately delete their numbers unless you can hookup with their hot friends.

 

[gaspipe]

Yea they are just playing games. Girls with real interest will do whatever to contact you.

 

[Aaron B]

either she controls the frame, or you control the frame

she is controlling the frame and dictating to you

you need to control the frame and dictate to her

if she doesn't follow your lead, she doesn't earn access to your valuable time and attention. so don't give it to her.

if you allow her to treat you this way, you are endorsing her behavior and lending it credence. in effect, you are choosing to be treated poorly

lastly, please explain how her being "pissed off" is a problem for you. it seems to me that if she is pissed off, that's her problem, not yours

 

[iwanttofight]

Trust me let them call you. They will be more attracted to you. If you dont call them first then they think your not putting them on a pedestool. They will think your banging lots of chicks and women love men that bang lots of chicks

 

[EvilAgenda]

Control freak/Attention Whre. Demands you call, but won't call back.

 

[nismo-4]

Ah, you've presented Judge nismo with a very simple case.

Women are not afraid of rejection. This so-called phenomenon is just a new way of attention wh0ring. These women like to watch you run on the treadmill, you're running, but getting nowhere.

Delete these numbers at all costs. If a woman is truly interested in you, she'll contact you. If she doesn't, she's not interested in you, and more than likely has another man.

Women enjoy leading men on falsely. They do this to men they haven't chosen. Always be in control, and if you sense attention wh0re vibes, EJECT! These women don't deserve your time or your love. Women love playing games, regardless of age.

A woman will get pissed off if you are a high value male she's trying to pursue, and not calling her.

This whole thing is a dressed up, drawn out rejection/ friendzone. Call it what the f**k you want, she's just not that into you.

Case closed.

 

[JdelaSilviera]

Thanks Judge, I´m not into her (them since many do this) either, they just complain I don´t pay them atention... They do text me, but don´t call...

I wonder if it has something to do with the "rules" or another sh/t like that...

 

[Alle_Gory]

Condescending b*tch. Do what you will but remember she's always trying to control you and the frame.

 

[gaspipe]

If you sense controlling issues, avoid at all costs. These chicks are just trouble.

 

[JdelaSilviera]

Condescending b*tch. Do what you will but remember she's always trying to control you and the frame.

Yep, bingo for you Alle_gory.

The thing is, this girl used to pursue me, and call me a lot, but I took the "be a challenge" to a whole new level, and blatantly ignored her.

She has since then tried to reverse the papers, and up until a point she was successful. But now I get this attention whoring/ condescending (you can call me if you want) vibe...

Totally ignored, I told I would call her but of course I won´t , just to piss her off completly...

Many of you guys are simply brilliant, If I were a girl I would fvck you just because of your intelligence aha

thanks

 

[ArcBound]

Here's what you do: everytime they say "Hey you should call me!"
Say "Sure thing!" and proceed to never call them.

Why are they getting ANGRY at YOU? Do you seem like some sort of push over that she would get angry at you for not bending to her whim? No girl would dare get angry at me for pulling her sh!tty games like that on me, and if she did fvck that don't take her anger without doing anything.

Tell her like it is: a cellphone works two ways, if she cared so much about me calling her, she could have just picked the phone up her damn self. It's not that hard.

Best case scenario: She knows you're not there to play here sh!tty games and hopefully stops.
Worst Case Scenario: You lose a condescending b!tch.

The more you let her get away with sh!t the more she thinks it is natural.

I know a lot of guys on this site will disagree with me and say "Never confront or argue with a woman! You can't win!"

An argument with a women is not about winning, it's sometimes about clear cut laying down what you are about and you don't tolerate BS, she can take it or leave it and you're prepared to deal with the consequences.

When men constantly take a woman's sh!t it only reaffirms her thoughts about you in a very bad way. Either bite back forcefully or find some way to diffuse the situation with humor.

 

[JdelaSilviera]

Very good Arcbound, and nice point on arguing with them...

 

[Aaron B]

I don't believe in deleting numbers because I don't want to get blind-sided if I accidentally answer a # I don't know

 

[Alle_Gory]

Here's what you do: everytime they say "Hey you should call me!"
Say "Sure thing!" and proceed to never call them.

HAHA! Awesome move. Sure I'll call you/stop by/take you on a date/buy you something shiny. Then never do it.

Why are they getting ANGRY at YOU? Do you seem like some sort of push over that she would get angry at you for not bending to her whim? No girl would dare get angry at me for pulling her sh!tty games like that on me, and if she did fvck that don't take her anger without doing anything.

Because she's a condescending b*tch and you're not reacting to her games. If she's mad that means she doesn't have the control she's after. I speak from experience, I was dealing with a girl just like this one. Not worth the effort. If you're going to continue:

1. Never get mad. If you feel emotion, you're getting too wrapped with this sh*t.

2. Maybe it's a game, maybe she's got a massive ego. Either way you never give her an ounce of respect. That is earned by good behaviour like everyone else. Normal and well adjusted girls are great, egotistical b*tches you must treat as they are.

I know a lot of guys on this site will disagree with me and say "Never confront or argue with a woman! You can't win!"

Why bother arguing? Just tell her "I'm tired of this. I don't want to hear from you for two weeks."

Then say absolutely nothing until she contacts you two weeks later. No argument can happen since you're unreactive as a wall. You simply say nothing and do your thing without her.