"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Perry

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one of the things i dont understand about college girls are why do some of them that i know quite well, and have know for a year, invite me to the parties i go to and insist on me coming? they are my DISTANT friends.

I already know im in there friend zone, and they are in my friend zone, So why do they care so much if i go to the same parties they go too? they call me lame if i dont with them and stuff. if they arent interested in the first place, do they just want guys to show up with them at the party or what??

im completely baffled.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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katatonia

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It's all for ATTENTION.

Show up to one of these parties and hook up with the hottest girl there in front of your female 'friends' and show them who they're fvcking with. :up:
 

Perry

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i ******* love this response....anyone else care to add please? what if i fail with the hottest girl at the party though? and why is it for attention?
 

Warrior74

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A woman without attention is like a mirror with no one to look in it. They fail in their purpose.
 
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