Girls That Go Into Your Mobile Phone?

[soulforge]

I don't feel it necessary to keep my phone turned over when in an LTR as I do not have anything to hide when in a commited relationship.

What I do mind, is biches waiting for that one opportunity in weeks/months where I left my phone unlocked and her pouncing on that opportunity and going through all my private messages.

That's what I find annoying.

 

[soulforge]

If you don't like what you'll find there, you act accordingly and put her in the category where she belongs.

If she can't handle you had a life previous then that's her problem, but I agree that's your property.


Why being so scared of her emotions?? If she's a plate should we be scared if she sees a notification from another woman texting us? If you have a gf you shouldn't be cheating anyways and if you do, its with someone who doesn't have your phone.


I don't see this necessary, if they wanna use their phones instead of being with you, you don't need to prohibit anything, there you have the answer, you enforce your boundary by letting her go, if she likes you, she will apologize and next time she will police herself.

@soulforge remember what happened with your ex and the time you made her a burger she used the phone? Remember how that $hit escalated? There is no black and white, "I prohibit you to use it". If she using it instead of being with you, the medium is the message, that's less time lost for you.

I think it's worth while letting her know atleast ONCE verbally that over using her phone, in certain situations such as when having a meal or at the restaurant is not acceptable, it's worthwhile just to gauge her reaction, so you get an idea what type of girl you are dealing with.

Is she compliant about a reasonable request or is she utterly defiant. Sometimes it's worth testing the water a little.

But agree with you, if it happens again, best to walk away until she realises her mistake.

 

[soulforge]

Autocorrect messing up.
Text should be:
"Still, you can set boundaries. For me it's a non-issue, I don't chat on my phone and that mostly inhibits others at my table to chat so they keep their phones in their purses (or pockets)."

If a date becomes more interested in her phone than in me, I tend to just quietly leave her. And the restaurant. I did that once (I paid the bill and left the restaurant). We still date, but she doesn't take her phone out anymore. Like you said, she policed herself.

You left and walked away nice.. However if she was in your house & being dismissive with her phone, would you walk away from your own home haha