i met this girl a while ago, but i didnt think he was interested in me, but last week i was hanging out with her and her roommate, and now all of a sudden she starts hitting on me and stuff, and next thing i know, shes getting clingy as hell and i dont even know her. I told her straight up that i dont want a relationship, and she said she was ok with that. Now all of a sudden shes telling me how much she likes me, and that she wants to hang out, and that if i was busy she would wait for me to not be busy so that we could hang out any chance she could get. WTF? now, ive got quite a few girls on my roster, and im not getting into any relationships right now. what causes these girls to get all clingy? i told this chick that she was getting all clingy, and she asked me how. I explained the whole thing to her. Then 6am this morning i get a 3 page text message about how much she likes me and wants to hang out with me any chance she can get. i told her that she was portraying desperation. she said "if i was desperate, i would have a man". yeah sure. then she said the whole thing was a joke. ok sure, shes been texting me for 3 days about how much she wants to be with me. screw that crap. I want her to back off, but i dont want to piss her off, because we have a lot of mutual friends, and i dont want to see any reprocution if i have to end up being a total a55hol3 to get her to go away. BTW i made a mistake and fukked her on monday. I was about half drunk, and she was making it happen. I didnt have to do anything but let it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
girls that get clingy, reallllllyyyy fast
- Thread starter jamescr73
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
afrojiggles
Don Juan
glad the drunkeness showed her that ur still a man with two balls,lol
TruthHurts
Don Juan
Remember, the fast it comes the faster it goes... a lot of times, what happens is once you actually get hooked on her, she will get unhooked and move on and you will be upset cause "how could she stop loving me" lol bla bla bla...
Point is, when they get hooked so fast, they start painting a picture of you as something your not, once they get to know you, they will be over it..
So have to be really carefull with girls like that.. Been there done that..
Point is, when they get hooked so fast, they start painting a picture of you as something your not, once they get to know you, they will be over it..
So have to be really carefull with girls like that.. Been there done that..
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
dude, don't fight it.
A lot of people seem to make the mistake of backing off of a clingy girl, thinking she'll stop.
But what do we tell people around here when they want to score with a girl they LIKE? You BACK OFF, act aloor, like you don't want her and SHE'LL COME TO YOU.
So, basically, look at what you are doing right now. How you act, how you feel, etc. and CAPTURE IT. Because someday you are going to use it on a girl you LIKE. Understand?
Good.
Now, on to the clingy girl...
You really want a wild answer to your problem? What's the best way to get rid of a girl you DON'T like who won't leave you alone?
Simple...AFC behaviour.
She's annoying you, so ANNOY HER MORE. Call her up 10 times a day. Do EVERYTHING you can for her. Tell her you want to marry her! lol Seriously, the best way to get rid of a clingy person is to be more clingy than them. Hell, you could have a lot of fun with it too. It's like a free reign to do whatever you want and not worry about screwing up!
But what do we tell people around here when they want to score with a girl they LIKE? You BACK OFF, act aloor, like you don't want her and SHE'LL COME TO YOU.
So, basically, look at what you are doing right now. How you act, how you feel, etc. and CAPTURE IT. Because someday you are going to use it on a girl you LIKE. Understand?
Good.
Now, on to the clingy girl...
You really want a wild answer to your problem? What's the best way to get rid of a girl you DON'T like who won't leave you alone?
Simple...AFC behaviour.
She's annoying you, so ANNOY HER MORE. Call her up 10 times a day. Do EVERYTHING you can for her. Tell her you want to marry her! lol Seriously, the best way to get rid of a clingy person is to be more clingy than them. Hell, you could have a lot of fun with it too. It's like a free reign to do whatever you want and not worry about screwing up!
Vypros said:
you know, i was telling a buddy of mine the other day, that this would be the best way to get rid of her. Problem is, i dont practice AFC behavior, and dont want to fall back into those ways. I got rid of that crap a few years ago, and never again will it see the light of day.
oh another thing that really bothered me about her, when we fukked the other day, she didnt want me to use a condom. So i asked her if she was on the pill, she said no. 
yeah, i told her ass i was using a condom. wtf is wrong with girls these days
yeah, i told her ass i was using a condom. wtf is wrong with girls these days "Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Play the Game
Master Don Juan
She's a sick litte girl. She wants to get herself pregnant so you don't leave. Watch out!jamescr73 said:oh another thing that really bothered me about her, when we fukked the other day, she didnt want me to use a condom. So i asked her if she was on the pill, she said no.