i met this girl a while ago, but i didnt think he was interested in me, but last week i was hanging out with her and her roommate, and now all of a sudden she starts hitting on me and stuff, and next thing i know, shes getting clingy as hell and i dont even know her. I told her straight up that i dont want a relationship, and she said she was ok with that. Now all of a sudden shes telling me how much she likes me, and that she wants to hang out, and that if i was busy she would wait for me to not be busy so that we could hang out any chance she could get. WTF? now, ive got quite a few girls on my roster, and im not getting into any relationships right now. what causes these girls to get all clingy? i told this chick that she was getting all clingy, and she asked me how. I explained the whole thing to her. Then 6am this morning i get a 3 page text message about how much she likes me and wants to hang out with me any chance she can get. i told her that she was portraying desperation. she said "if i was desperate, i would have a man". yeah sure. then she said the whole thing was a joke. ok sure, shes been texting me for 3 days about how much she wants to be with me. screw that crap. I want her to back off, but i dont want to piss her off, because we have a lot of mutual friends, and i dont want to see any reprocution if i have to end up being a total a55hol3 to get her to go away. BTW i made a mistake and fukked her on monday. I was about half drunk, and she was making it happen. I didnt have to do anything but let it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
girls that get clingy, reallllllyyyy fast
- Thread starter jamescr73
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
afrojiggles
Don Juan
glad the drunkeness showed her that ur still a man with two balls,lol
TruthHurts
Don Juan
Remember, the fast it comes the faster it goes... a lot of times, what happens is once you actually get hooked on her, she will get unhooked and move on and you will be upset cause "how could she stop loving me" lol bla bla bla...
Point is, when they get hooked so fast, they start painting a picture of you as something your not, once they get to know you, they will be over it..
So have to be really carefull with girls like that.. Been there done that..
Point is, when they get hooked so fast, they start painting a picture of you as something your not, once they get to know you, they will be over it..
So have to be really carefull with girls like that.. Been there done that..
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
dude, don't fight it.
A lot of people seem to make the mistake of backing off of a clingy girl, thinking she'll stop.
But what do we tell people around here when they want to score with a girl they LIKE? You BACK OFF, act aloor, like you don't want her and SHE'LL COME TO YOU.
So, basically, look at what you are doing right now. How you act, how you feel, etc. and CAPTURE IT. Because someday you are going to use it on a girl you LIKE. Understand?
Good.
Now, on to the clingy girl...
You really want a wild answer to your problem? What's the best way to get rid of a girl you DON'T like who won't leave you alone?
Simple...AFC behaviour.
She's annoying you, so ANNOY HER MORE. Call her up 10 times a day. Do EVERYTHING you can for her. Tell her you want to marry her! lol Seriously, the best way to get rid of a clingy person is to be more clingy than them. Hell, you could have a lot of fun with it too. It's like a free reign to do whatever you want and not worry about screwing up!
But what do we tell people around here when they want to score with a girl they LIKE? You BACK OFF, act aloor, like you don't want her and SHE'LL COME TO YOU.
So, basically, look at what you are doing right now. How you act, how you feel, etc. and CAPTURE IT. Because someday you are going to use it on a girl you LIKE. Understand?
Good.
Now, on to the clingy girl...
You really want a wild answer to your problem? What's the best way to get rid of a girl you DON'T like who won't leave you alone?
Simple...AFC behaviour.
She's annoying you, so ANNOY HER MORE. Call her up 10 times a day. Do EVERYTHING you can for her. Tell her you want to marry her! lol Seriously, the best way to get rid of a clingy person is to be more clingy than them. Hell, you could have a lot of fun with it too. It's like a free reign to do whatever you want and not worry about screwing up!
Vypros said:
you know, i was telling a buddy of mine the other day, that this would be the best way to get rid of her. Problem is, i dont practice AFC behavior, and dont want to fall back into those ways. I got rid of that crap a few years ago, and never again will it see the light of day.
oh another thing that really bothered me about her, when we fukked the other day, she didnt want me to use a condom. So i asked her if she was on the pill, she said no. 
yeah, i told her ass i was using a condom. wtf is wrong with girls these days
yeah, i told her ass i was using a condom. wtf is wrong with girls these days "She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Play the Game
Master Don Juan
She's a sick litte girl. She wants to get herself pregnant so you don't leave. Watch out!jamescr73 said:oh another thing that really bothered me about her, when we fukked the other day, she didnt want me to use a condom. So i asked her if she was on the pill, she said no.