"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girls That Don't Call Over the Phone

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Double J

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Based on my experiences with girls, I've noted that some have definitely been more of the "phone type" than others, and the ones that call me too much cause me to lose interest in them. The ones that don't call much I see as more of a challenge - and that just makes me want to call them more.

I recently found a girl online who graduated from the same high school as me, just one year after me. She IMs me online a good amount, and if I call her and she doesn't pick up, she always returns my call. She recently asked me when we were gonna meet face to face, which I see as a good sign. But, she never calls first, and usually on the phone she's quiet anyway.

IMO a girl that acts this way seems to like for the guy to take total charge and I see it as a worthy LTR quality in a girl. A girl that is all up in my a$$ calling a lot gets super annoying.

What is your view on this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Agreed

If she does seem the phone type you need to assert yourself early on so she won't keep calling.
 
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