"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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comic_relief

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Hello guys,

I'm interested in your thoughts on girls that dislike drama. I know that 95% of women say that they hate drama in their lives, but yet thrive on it. What about that 5% that dislikes drama entirely.

I am interested on everyone's experiences with girls that dislike drama. I know that they are out there. If anybody knows how to get girls into a low maintenance mode, please do tell. We stress ourselves out with girls that are high maintenance, but girls with low maintenance we don't talk about that much.

Let us discuss this idea.

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My current girlfriend, although not the greatest looking girl in the world, has one of the best personalities in the world with a strong disgust for drama. If she doesn't like a person, she avoids them like the plague. She does not try to upset me or anyone else and dislikes drama.

She used to love drama when she was younger, but through life experience of having her heart ripped out twice, she doesn't like to get emotionally invested in relationships because of how she was treated until yours truly got her to open up to see the world as it was.

Even now we have a set of rules in line to keep drama to a minimum.
1.) We must visit with other friends for 80% of the day or just be out doing something.
2.) We only see each other at night to get work done excluding food times (breakfast, lunch, and dinner) and working out times.
3.) If either of us does get upset, we must take a fifteen minute walk away from each other and talk about it later.

I would like everyone to discuss their times with their girls that they had with girls with very little drama or have a disgust for drama altogether.

comic_relief
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wow i didnt there was a women that hated drama on the planet
 

baurman

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From my experience, usually when a woman says they HATE DRAMA... ARE Drama. They probably have soo much crap going on in their life that they need to always express to people "i hate drama"
 

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ugly girls are usually very down to earth and dont play games. I think when a girl is attractive and knows her sexual power over men, the power goes to her head and she becomes a drama queen.
 

Señor Fingers

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Maintenance goes beyond drama, it's tied more to her character and maturity level.

HIGH MAINTENANCE GIRL

• Enjoys stirring up a sh!t storm and then watching people clean up her mess.
• Gets a kick out of watching people on a downward spiral.
• Selfish and incapable of real love cause her ego gets in the way.
• Never satisfied which is why she depends on you so much for satisfaction.
• Annoying sense of entitlement, like the world owes her a favor
• Usually very jealous and possessive
• Tries to wear the pants in the relationship
• Holds grudges forever

LOW MAINTENANCE WOMAN

• Considerate of other people's feelings.
• Enjoys helping people out, especially friends and fams.
• Makes an effort to reciprocate everything you do for her.
• Internally fulfilled and loves herself.
• Has her own circle of friends and gives you space.
• Trusts you implicitly
• Knows her place as a woman
• Forgives easily

I know which one I enjoy more!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Señor Fingers said:
Maintenance goes beyond drama, it's tied more to her character and maturity level.

HIGH MAINTENANCE GIRL

• Enjoys stirring up a sh!t storm and then watching people clean up her mess.
• Gets a kick out of watching people on a downward spiral.
• Selfish and incapable of real love cause her ego gets in the way.
• Never satisfied which is why she depends on you so much for satisfaction.
• Annoying sense of entitlement, like the world owes her a favor
• Usually very jealous and possessive
• Tries to wear the pants in the relationship
• Holds grudges forever

LOW MAINTENANCE WOMAN

• Considerate of other people's feelings.
• Enjoys helping people out, especially friends and fams.
• Makes an effort to reciprocate everything you do for her.
• Internally fulfilled and loves herself.
• Has her own circle of friends and gives you space.
• Trusts you implicitly
• Knows her place as a woman
• Forgives easily

I know which one I enjoy more!
nice! glad you posted this senor!
 

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Señor Fingers said:
Maintenance goes beyond drama, it's tied more to her character and maturity level.

HIGH MAINTENANCE GIRL

• Enjoys stirring up a sh!t storm and then watching people clean up her mess.
• Gets a kick out of watching people on a downward spiral.
• Selfish and incapable of real love cause her ego gets in the way.
• Never satisfied which is why she depends on you so much for satisfaction.
• Annoying sense of entitlement, like the world owes her a favor
• Usually very jealous and possessive
• Tries to wear the pants in the relationship
• Holds grudges forever

LOW MAINTENANCE WOMAN

• Considerate of other people's feelings.
• Enjoys helping people out, especially friends and fams.
• Makes an effort to reciprocate everything you do for her.
• Internally fulfilled and loves herself.
• Has her own circle of friends and gives you space.
• Trusts you implicitly
• Knows her place as a woman
• Forgives easily

I know which one I enjoy more!
Agree with you Senor, but here is the catch 22:

High maintance girl= Pretty girl and those pretty girls tend to love drama.

Low maintance girl= not someone you want to fvck, homely looking girl/ugly and tend to avoid drama at all cost.

Now granted a pretty girl can be low maintance, but that tends to be the exception not the norm. Pretty women are conditioned by society (us Men are by large at fault) that they can act up and still get away with their sh1t.
 

Señor Fingers

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DJDamage,

Low maintenance dimes are rare indeed. I've dated models and actresses and most of them suffer from princess-itis. It's just only natural for them to be like this when everything in life is handed to them on a silver platter.

My wife is not the prettiest girl I've been with, but by far she is the most beautiful because she's hot and very low-maintenance, a real diamond in the rough.
 

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Señor Fingers said:
DJDamage,

Low maintenance dimes are rare indeed. I've dated models and actresses and most of them suffer from princess-itis. It's just only natural for them to be like this when everything in life is handed to them on a silver platter.

My wife is not the prettiest girl I've been with, but by far she is the most beautiful because she's hot and very low-maintenance, a real diamond in the rough.
That advice right here might be the reason why you need to date alot to experience alot, until you find something that is best suited for your needs.

The diamond in the rough can come in two ways:

1) you date and date hot women until you find the one that is low maintenance.

2) you find a homley looking girl with potential and pimp her out, just like in the movie "she is all that" ( hey don't be breaking my balls now, I watched that movie because I was on a date!)
 

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My oneitis says to "leave the drama for yo mama." She's not good-looking by most guys standards but she has the ability to seduce anyone, man or woman. She's kind of a tomboy, rides horses, very active, and will get down n' dirty rolling around in the mud. She insists on having a real Christmas tree too. She can arouse herself, like get a cl!t-boner, at will. Very strange, this one. Totally in-tune with her body, and I Like that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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