Girls that complain about men not approaching and guys not approaching

[BackInTheGame78]

Can't have it both ways.

Can't on one hand make fun and post videos about men approaching, tell them how creept they are and try and make them feel small and like crap, then on the other hand, complain that men stopped doing it because they have no interest in being treated that way with more and more regularity.

Like have some damn sense and realize that your actions have consequences that don't always align with what you actually want.

 

[Bigpapa]

Can't have it both ways.

Can't on one hand make fun and post videos about men approaching, tell them how creept they are and try and make them feel small and like crap, then on the other hand, complain that men stopped doing it because they have no interest in being treated that way with more and more regularity.

Like have some damn sense and realize that your actions have consequences that don't always align with what you actually want.

I think it has to do more with the fact that they do not really want to be approached by guys they do not feel that they are at least cute ( for them ), but at the same time they miss the ego stroke that guys they do not find attractive bring

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

I think it has to do more with the fact that they do not really want to be approached by guys they do not feel that they are at least cute ( for them ), but at the same time they miss the ego stroke that guys they do not find attractive bring

I think an ugly guy or a generally low status one that approaches them is capable to enrage them regardless his social skills or politeness.

Being them social creatures where even truth or justice depends on a social consensus instead of reality, they see a lesser man thinking he has a chance or worse yet showing those around that she could be at his level as a serious threat to their position in the social hierarchy.

 

[HaleyBaron]

I still think that it is better to not be approached, than to be approached by a guy that is not uncalibrated

Seen plenty of weirdos that were following women around …

but at the same time also women became kinda uncalibrated, so it is a game that has no winners just casualties

Women stalk FAR more than men ever have or could.

 

[Mike32ct]

I think an ugly guy or a generally low status one that approaches them is capable to enrage them regardless his social skills or politeness.

Being them social creatures where even truth or justice depends on a social consensus instead of reality, they see a lesser man thinking he has a chance or worse yet showing those around that she could be at his level as a serious threat to their position in the social hierarchy.

Yes, it’s very personal to them, for reasons you have in bold. This is also why a “target rich” environment isn’t any easier for unattractive guy. In fact, it’s probably much harder. The more she is surrounded by other women, the more she is focused on her reputation/status.

 

[Bigpapa]

I think an ugly guy or a generally low status one that approaches them is capable to enrage them regardless his social skills or politeness.

If you are an ugly guy / low status guy and if you are socially calibrated, I think that you still very likely be shown the boot but it should not be in a dismissive / enraged way

I am sure that being turned down in a very harsh way could still happen from time to time, but it should not happen that often

I rarely saw a guy being dismissed in a harsh way by women

 

[HaleyBaron]

You're more likely to be turned away harshly by ugly, average, and fat women than with beautiful women. Beautiful women tend to be nicer with it, mostly cause they aren't inherently bitter.

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

There are guys like that but they are a small minority of men (and often suffer from autism or other mental health issues).

yeah reminds me of a special needs guy i'm in contact with, yes i have that too, but i can tell his case is far worse than mine, it won't surprise me if he never has a GF or dies a virgin, he is so extremely socially inept that he got a restraining order on him back in college and was expelled, got labeled a stalker by the whole college, i figure his only hope to get laid is an escort or sex worker/prostitute.

But despite him being mentally/socially challenged, cognitive difficulties, he has a pretty good talent for drawing/art.

But he is only alive due to modern medicine, he said as a baby he was born premature, quite early, and i think that also contributed to his mental/social, cognitive difficulties.

But yeah it doesn't matter, because more than likely, for all eternity, men will forever be stuck with this role whether we like it or not, or for bad or good, even if it results in negative situations for either gender.