Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girls that become boring, a way to escape?

solo1

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Just curious, how do guys handle girls that just become boring. Before you'd think they were interesting and fun, maybe they were. Then suddenly a girl becomes boring, anti-social, always home and always online...basically doesnt have much of a life going on. could be in a rut or digging their grave but meh.

I'm an upbeat optimistic guy, I dont like it when a girl becomes boring or aka 'depressing'....not realistically depressing but becoming someone with no life. I could try to get them back in the mood by making things fun again...but do the ends justify the means? Im no therapist, but i like it when a girl has interesting stuff going on, i like it when they take an interest in me as do i to them. In the end they just kill my interest in them.

What do you guys do in moments such as these?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Taboo

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Either choose better girls or involve them in any exciting activites your doing.
 

BluEyes

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Just curious, how do guys handle girls that just become boring. Before you'd think they were interesting and fun, maybe they were. Then suddenly a girl becomes boring, anti-social, always home and always online...basically doesnt have much of a life going on. could be in a rut or digging their grave but meh.
Tell her she's gained weight since you got with her, and that your fvcking some other girl.

She'll either get her dull a.s.s. out of your life or try to validate herself to you sexually.
 

Cod3r

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Boring girls are inexpensive... exciting = $$$



-Cod3r
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Cod3r said:
Boring girls are inexpensive... exciting = $$$



-Cod3r
What?? Explain yourself! :woo:
 

sh4rk b1t3

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Why would you dump someone for being boring? If she still ****s you, then whats the big ****ing deal?
 

thefonz

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I was interesting in going after one of my friends from school until I got to know her. It turns out she has NOTHING to say in convo. So I basically keep her around for social proof.
 

Lucas718

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Either stop hanging out with them or tell them to come up with something fun to do.
 
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