"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girls that become boring, a way to escape?

solo1

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Just curious, how do guys handle girls that just become boring. Before you'd think they were interesting and fun, maybe they were. Then suddenly a girl becomes boring, anti-social, always home and always online...basically doesnt have much of a life going on. could be in a rut or digging their grave but meh.

I'm an upbeat optimistic guy, I dont like it when a girl becomes boring or aka 'depressing'....not realistically depressing but becoming someone with no life. I could try to get them back in the mood by making things fun again...but do the ends justify the means? Im no therapist, but i like it when a girl has interesting stuff going on, i like it when they take an interest in me as do i to them. In the end they just kill my interest in them.

What do you guys do in moments such as these?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Taboo

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Either choose better girls or involve them in any exciting activites your doing.
 

BluEyes

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Just curious, how do guys handle girls that just become boring. Before you'd think they were interesting and fun, maybe they were. Then suddenly a girl becomes boring, anti-social, always home and always online...basically doesnt have much of a life going on. could be in a rut or digging their grave but meh.
Tell her she's gained weight since you got with her, and that your fvcking some other girl.

She'll either get her dull a.s.s. out of your life or try to validate herself to you sexually.
 

Cod3r

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Boring girls are inexpensive... exciting = $$$



-Cod3r
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Cod3r said:
Boring girls are inexpensive... exciting = $$$



-Cod3r
What?? Explain yourself! :woo:
 

sh4rk b1t3

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Why would you dump someone for being boring? If she still ****s you, then whats the big ****ing deal?
 

thefonz

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I was interesting in going after one of my friends from school until I got to know her. It turns out she has NOTHING to say in convo. So I basically keep her around for social proof.
 

Lucas718

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Either stop hanging out with them or tell them to come up with something fun to do.
 
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