"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girls that are walking?

ChocolateVanilla

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Hey Guys,

I'm looking to improve my approaches, and the majority of my approaches have been to girls that are stationary but there are plenty of girls I'd like to meet but they're usually walking fast or moving along disinterested. A few times I've walked up to them and walked with them side by side and that didn't work out too well. I did a search for this topic and I have yet to find any concrete tips/advice on dealing with girls that are moving. So can anyone help me out here?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Never try to stop a moving target. Unless of course you look like Brad Pitt or are a big name celebrity!
 

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I come across this all the time. I'm on bike and they sometimes walking or on bikes also. If you get AI from her, you have the right to stop her. For example, you make EC, you smile and she smiles back.

At times you come across women that aren't giving you AIs and are simply not interested in you approaching them. I had once a set of high school girls like that, walking daily, but no AIs. I catch by chance this raccoon baby, put him on my shoulder, ride my bike right through the group, they get freaked out at the animal. I yell, RATTT!!!! They jump back and go AHHHHHHHH!!!!!

Next time they gave me what I was looking for.
 

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Stuntmann said:
I come across this all the time. I'm on bike and they sometimes walking or on bikes also. If you get AI from her, you have the right to stop her. For example, you make EC, you smile and she smiles back.

At times you come across women that aren't giving you AIs and are simply not interested in you approaching them. I had once a set of high school girls like that, walking daily, but no AIs. I catch by chance this raccoon baby, put him on my shoulder, ride my bike right through the group, they get freaked out at the animal. I yell, RATTT!!!! They jump back and go AHHHHHHHH!!!!!

Next time they gave me what I was looking for.

I'm not the best looking guy in the world, girls don't give me IOI's all the time. I'm just wondering if there's a good way to stop them and start talking to them. I just haven't seen a good article the Bible about this topic.
 
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