"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girls that act rude/nasty but actually interested

altec

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Anyone had situations with girls that come across rude/nasty but you later found out they were interested? Met this girl a few times in social circle and once had a chance to talk to her more she was super *****y.. But, I think she is just socially awkward and actually was into me and just didn't want to "Show" her interest. In reality, I wasn't that attracted to her so I never tested out the theory but just thinking about some other situations with a "friend" who was kind of nasty attitude sometimes to me but she admitted that she had a think for me (again, wasn't interested so I rejected her).

Thinking there is a certain type of girl that uses that kind of attitude as a test or something to see how the guy reacts?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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VladPatton

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Yep, I've had this happen. It turned me off immensely. It shows she is either butthurt that you're not orbiting her, or she is easily influenced by either the group, family, or certain friends. This one girl got disrespectful actually, and she's the one who refused me twice! Go figure Next time, I won't even acknowledge her presence.

This behavior is not cool, and it shows a real childish, shıt character on her behalf. Next these girls without remorse!
 

foreverAFC

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there are some women at work who would make sure to ignore me and be unfriendly, and then once they realized i was turned off by their behavior they started to give smiles and be friendly, and they would get even more angry cause they couldnt understand why i wasnt being friendly back to them after being ignored everyday for many months

a part of the problem was my mentality as well, i should have recognized there was some attraction or interest and tried to use it to talk to them instead of thinking they didnt want me and ignore them, women act wierd all the time
 
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