"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you guys like it or not? I just moved an old friend from friend zone to friends with benefits zone. She is beautiful looking (also smoking ass, super sense of style, lovely curly hair), but tall. I am 5'8 and she is 5'11. I never noticed it so much before except while kissing her tonight. I didn't feel as much on top of things as I usually feel because when we were standing I had to look up to look into her eyes. I am not terribly mad for this girl, but it seemed like an opportunity waiting to be cashed, so I cashed in. Anybody else have issues with women taller than themselves? It sucks for me because I find tall women extremely sexy, and I have this block that comes up when I am around them.

Update on the relationship I was considering... she was throwing a big tantrum about being exclusive and stuff (we have been dating only 2 months), I just let her blow off steam without offering any any answer at all. Two days later she writes saying she is happy with things as they are and is glad to give me my space. I love women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Haha you are a happy guy!!!

I really do not have any problems with girls taller than me (I'm 6'1 and its rare to run into a girl taller than I.)

But...if a girl would judge you based on your height, she is shallow and would you even want to get close with a girl like that?

Just make sure you don't put her on a pedestal!

Good luck!
 

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Never met one. At least never met an attractive one anyways.
 

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Tall girls can fall for you fairly easily; the question is whether or not you fall for them. I prefer shorter girls, myself.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It could have been worse, she could have had a problem with he rbeing taller, but she kissed you. So obviously it isn't a major issue. Good on ya maite:up:
 

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i dated one. in 6th grade. lol i wouldn't be able to do it personally. being taller than her is just something i have in my back pocket that helps me be more dominant. (6'3"-6'4" :D)
 

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A couple of girls have nexted me because I they are taller than me. One was 5'9" and the other one was about 5'5" (but she liked to wear heels)

With that said, it's the girl's problem, not yours.

and if you're wondering, yes I hate being a midget.
 

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I'm 5'10", so there aren't a ton of girls taller than me, but there are definitely some. My favorite line to use on them is, "What I lack in height I make up for in length," accompanied by a wink

Cheesy? Yes. Successful? If executed properly, absolutely.
 

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Usually girls don't go for shorter guys.

But nice work on the second part dude. Most guys would defend, commit, offer explanations. You played it perfect.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm 5'11 but have hooked up with a few hot 6 footers! they're all legs! dont make it an issue and proceed as you normally would.
 

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As The Inside Man said thay are all legs. If you are a leg man like me, enjoy her height.
 

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I'm about 5'6" and I've dated taller and shorter. Either way doesn't make a different to me.
 

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I'm only 5'7" myself, the tallest girl I've ever dated was 6'1". Personally I prefer 'em shorter for most of the reasons stated above (easier to throw about the bedroom).
It's only really a big deal if you make it one, no pun intended.

I think some women get off on dating someone shorter than them. Especially if they are not used to it. They tend to be the more dominant, aggressive type of women though in my experience.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'd find it a bit bizarre kissing a girl who is taller than you and having to look up to her! I don't even like women who are the same height as me. I like my women short, especially the petite Asian type for similar reasons to those listed above (you can pick 'em up and easy to manouver!)
 

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AKA FLEX said:
I'm 5'10", so there aren't a ton of girls taller than me, but there are definitely some. My favorite line to use on them is, "What I lack in height I make up for in length," accompanied by a wink

Cheesy? Yes. Successful? If executed properly, absolutely.
Thats *really* lame. The fact you acknowledge it shows your insecurity.

Plus I'd rather be taller than have a bigger **** any day of the week.
 
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