"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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girls taking forever to reply/dont initiate texts

pyros

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So, I know these two girls, girlA and girlB.

GirlA: I've banged her once, then stopped seing her for over a month, and now we reinitiated contact. We've been on seven dates but SHE NEVER TEXTS ME. She's done it twice out of 15 texts we've exchanged (or so).

GirlB: says she doesnt pay attention to her phone, neither to facebook or any other social media or tecnology. We've exchanged around 8 messages and she takes around 7 hours to reply, each time, or even more!
We've just gone out once.

I try to simplify things and think that both girls have little interest and this is why one never initiates texts, and why the other takes forever to reply, but...

did you ever meet a girl like any of these two that eventhough she behaved this way was actually interested? I wonder.

i've read some stories about guys complaining that their gf's take forever to reply to any message, like more than a few hours each time, and they're in a relationship! wtf?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheMonkeyKing

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1) They're not that interested.

2) They're gaming you (and it's working).

As I've said before I don't bother too much with electronic comms with women, only to arrange to meet. It works because every other dork is texting/facebooking/calling her all the time.
 

latinnova

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Ya bro, now that I have been back out in the field the girls are running as much game as we are. There are girls out there who are straight up doing the same thing horny PUA dudes are doing, the pump and dump (roles reversed) lol. I got to know this one girl who has built up a harem of sugar daddy's, it's pretty interesting how she is able to handle all this, but she does. Reciprocate her responses, and if that means no response, then move on to another and forget her.
 
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