"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girls still on my balls

Bling

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I broke up with this girl over 2 weeks ago, and she still won't get over me. She takes offense when I don't want to talk to her and rather talk to MY REAL FRIENDS. :rolleyes: How do I get rid of her?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Porky

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admit to her that you're dating a 35 year old man.
 

toddC

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just be like...were borken up i'm over you u have to get over me

shell cry for a few days but w/e itll be worth it
 

JayUK

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Get wit sum random gurl infront of her, or tell her ure into her best mate, an try an make a move on her best mate if u get rejected then atleast ure mate wont say anythin, but if u pull her mate, its cool! fair game!
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by Porky
admit to her that you're dating a 35 year old man.
You mean he is dating you?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AC/DC

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I would actually use her feelings and get some p*ssy out of her. If you can, do it.
 

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Haha, some advice we're got going here. What you should do depends on how big of an AFC you are. If you really like the attention, you'll probably continue doing whatever your doing until she gets bored of you. If you actually want the attention gone, you'll talk to her and say that you're not interested in getting back together and mean it.

If you're doing anything like most highschoolers do, you're giving her hints, though possibily small, that give her some shred of hope. Stop giving her hope, tell her "how you really feel." Which is, "no, never again."
 
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