"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girls Staring At You While Other Guys Game Them?

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What's up players, I'm new to the game after a LTR (5 years, almost got engaged). Whew! I love it out there! I want to increase my options and it's been fun. I've been going out for about two months, after reading and reading materials for months.

This weekend was great! Got a makeout on Friday night. Saturday was pretty crazy, and I got a little frazzled. What do you guys think of this situation? I had been chatting with this one very hot blonde girl for a while. I see her again near the end of the night, and she re-opens me: "heeey, where did you go?!" she asks me. I tell her I had wandered off to my find my friend. Then her hot brunette friend starts talking to me, so I start to give the brunette attention. After a minute, the blonde leaves.

I take this to mean that the blonde is not feeling me anymore. However, I see her again later in the night. Some guy has started to game her. It seems like they know each other from before. He starts to caveman her. She is friendly, but she holds her forearm up, preventing their bodies from pressing together, even though he is trying to hug her.

Also, she is staring at me and smiling and winks at me. Do I AMOG this guy? I don't know if it's a friend or ex. Do I wait for her to get away from this guy first?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alphamale1821

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Simple answer if your gaming up a chick and her full attention isn't on you then your not doing something right. If a chick is eye fvcking you that alone is grounds for amoging but this chick was smiling and winking at you. NO SHYT YOU SHOULD GO AMOG the other guy or you could just wait. It doesn't really matter because regardless she is attracted to you.
 

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newplayer said:
What's up players, I'm new to the game after a LTR (5 years, almost got engaged). Whew! I love it out there! I want to increase my options and it's been fun. I've been going out for about two months, after reading and reading materials for months.

This weekend was great! Got a makeout on Friday night. Saturday was pretty crazy, and I got a little frazzled. What do you guys think of this situation? I had been chatting with this one very hot blonde girl for a while. I see her again near the end of the night, and she re-opens me: "heeey, where did you go?!" she asks me. I tell her I had wandered off to my find my friend. Then her hot brunette friend starts talking to me, so I start to give the brunette attention. After a minute, the blonde leaves.

I take this to mean that the blonde is not feeling me anymore. However, I see her again later in the night. Some guy has started to game her. It seems like they know each other from before. He starts to caveman her. She is friendly, but she holds her forearm up, preventing their bodies from pressing together, even though he is trying to hug her.

Also, she is staring at me and smiling and winks at me. Do I AMOG this guy? I don't know if it's a friend or ex. Do I wait for her to get away from this guy first?
You know exactly what it means u punk :up: j/k but dude if shes looking at you and winking, That right there tells you that she wants you.
 

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yeah man, this was happening all night. Girls were with guys and they would be just eye fvcking me hardcore while talking with "their" guy or whoever he happened to be. It seemed like I could have every girl in the room if what you guys are saying is true!
 

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bottom line when a girl is eye fvcking you that means she's attracted to you, when a chick is smiling or winking those are also IOI.( indicators of interest) Most chicks will rarely approach guys so that is why they give us IOI's so we can do the work. They give us the sign we go in for the sale and close.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah man, sometimes when I make out with girls, I'll check out other girls to see if I can make them jealous or to see if I can get them more hot for me! Or I'll look at them and smile while I'm talking to another girl!
 

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Yeah, this is all coming back to me now. The hot blonde, as soon as I started talking to her, leaned in, reached out to hold my hand, then leaned into to hug me. These girls were so touchy feely the entire night!
 

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excuse me, but what is AMOG, is this walking up to a guy and saying, "She's mine, buddy. Go away?"
 

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its just a general term for demonstrating that you have higher social value/dominating presence than another guy. It is best done subtly rather than overtly like the example above. The best situation is if only you and the girl are in on the joke and know that the AMOGing is taking place. So its like your inside joke, if you can manage it.
 

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Alphamale1821 said:
bottom line when a girl is eye fvcking you that means she's attracted to you, when a chick is smiling or winking those are also IOI.( indicators of interest) Most chicks will rarely approach guys so that is why they give us IOI's so we can do the work. They give us the sign we go in for the sale and close.

Perfectly stated brother. :rockon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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These girls were so touchy feely the entire night!

Sounds like a bunch of girls were on the E train that night.


All Aboard ! LOL
 

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naw man, just beer.

Ryan69 said:
These girls were so touchy feely the entire night!

Sounds like a bunch of girls were on the E train that night.


All Aboard ! LOL
 
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