Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Bad_Lil'Pixie

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I read a lot of this yesterday morning and decided to let the tide roll in and out before reading again. This morning I kicked back and read it, yes all 7 grueling pages, and I tried to read it from “outside” the thread, watching for trends and likenesses.

BINGO!! This just FURTHER defines and enforces what I have been telling DJxNat all along.

The men here, the ones that are indifferent to women posters, supportive of women posters and the men that are NOT here who really don’t give a rats ass about women posters - - - - - Live the Life…..they Walk the Talk.

They have the style, the “suaveness” if you will; it is their way of life and seems to come so natural that the “steps” no longer have to be thought of, they simply flow. It is a lifestyle, a second nature and something that has been inherited and applied.

Then there are the protesters. Sure, they have the right to dislike women posters and can freely ignore them, waste time flaming them, etc…. But why are they THREATENED by them and think them the enemy????

Well this is Pixie’s take on it: (ignore or read on, your choice)

This intimidation derives from their manner of usage, or should I say MISusage, of the bible and the site. They use it like a modern day cliff note, cheat sheet or a man's dirty little secret. I can almost see DJxNat lift his sleeve to take a peak at a tip or two while out clubbing. They fear a woman “catching” them or seeing where they “get their stuff” from. We are the enemy because we have infiltrated the lines and we know where the ACT comes from.

This misuse of the bible has caused it to fail for them, since it failed they choose to create their own methods, um, mental abuse method, I think it was labeled. They try their home grown styles and only base their success or failure on HER REACTION. This is so opposite the character of an alpha male. An alpha male authenticates his manhood from within.

Until the bible and style is applied and used in a way other then flash cards and flannel boards you will not see success. DJxNat and your aliases….you will never find the DJ bible, it’s measures or methods applicable until you have obtained inner confidence, inner peace and inner certainty.

It isn’t a deceitful “ACT” or a manipulation; it is more of an existence.

So says this chick.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't read the bible. Some day I might. Some day I might have to do it.

But quite honestly I don't read it. I don't have the time...and I don't have the energy. I rather do other things.

I would admit that if I was going through some issues in my life (relationships, etc.)...then I would read it.

People do mis-abuse some of the advice. I read how some men that lack experience using "techniques" that ONLY men with advance experience should use (key word: ADVANCE experience). And what's the outcome? Mistreatment of women. Looking like a fool. Or behaving like the stereotypical woman beater.
 

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AngelusPUA said:
I'm not taking sides but how was he KBJing on that post?
I never quite understood either, but I've replied now anyway.
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
i make a big deal outta sex cuz i lost my virginity only at 18 (kinda late) but i ****in LOVE sex, how gay do u have to be to "like sex less" just cuz u been with a lot of women??? its the opposite - i love it MORE
Oh I love it too, I love it lots, but I don't go round telling everyone "I had sex last night" because it's just a given. It's not like sex is so unusual and rare that you have to tell people you are getting some...unless for you it is rare and a big event.

In life, people who talk a big game and tell everyone what they did and can do, can rarely back it up with actions. Boasting is usually someone compensating for something they are lacking.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bad_Lil'Pixie said:
I read a lot of this yesterday morning and decided to let the tide roll in and out before reading again. This morning I kicked back and read it, yes all 7 grueling pages, and I tried to read it from “outside” the thread, watching for trends and likenesses.

BINGO!! This just FURTHER defines and enforces what I have been telling DJxNat all along.

The men here, the ones that are indifferent to women posters, supportive of women posters and the men that are NOT here who really don’t give a rats ass about women posters - - - - - Live the Life…..they Walk the Talk.

They have the style, the “suaveness” if you will; it is their way of life and seems to come so natural that the “steps” no longer have to be thought of, they simply flow. It is a lifestyle, a second nature and something that has been inherited and applied.

Then there are the protesters. Sure, they have the right to dislike women posters and can freely ignore them, waste time flaming them, etc…. But why are they THREATENED by them and think them the enemy????

Well this is Pixie’s take on it: (ignore or read on, your choice)

This intimidation derives from their manner of usage, or should I say MISusage, of the bible and the site. They use it like a modern day cliff note, cheat sheet or a man's dirty little secret. I can almost see DJxNat lift his sleeve to take a peak at a tip or two while out clubbing. They fear a woman “catching” them or seeing where they “get their stuff” from. We are the enemy because we have infiltrated the lines and we know where the ACT comes from.

This misuse of the bible has caused it to fail for them, since it failed they choose to create their own methods, um, mental abuse method, I think it was labeled. They try their home grown styles and only base their success or failure on HER REACTION. This is so opposite the character of an alpha male. An alpha male authenticates his manhood from within.

Until the bible and style is applied and used in a way other then flash cards and flannel boards you will not see success. DJxNat and your aliases….you will never find the DJ bible, it’s measures or methods applicable until you have obtained inner confidence, inner peace and inner certainty.

It isn’t a deceitful “ACT” or a manipulation; it is more of an existence.

So says this chick.
That's an elegant way of saying that everyone who disagrees with your posting here is a loser, but I think you're essentially correct. I'd much rather see more action taken against the trolls and flamers than the few women that post here.

I've had women I've been seeing find this site and they were grateful that someone was teaching the males to be men.
 

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AngelusPUA said:
Ok truce Skip, try to be less offensive in the future though.

Bad_Lil'Pixie is a good poster why would you want her to leave? She is a better poster than 90% of the men in here.

LOL i never EVER said girls should be BANNED from here....but i deff wont take advice on girls from girls, it never worked before....i only take advice from guys who r successful with girls
 

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The Truth said:
Oh I love it too, I love it lots, but I don't go round telling everyone "I had sex last night" because it's just a given. It's not like sex is so unusual and rare that you have to tell people you are getting some...unless for you it is rare and a big event.

In life, people who talk a big game and tell everyone what they did and can do, can rarely back it up with actions. Boasting is usually someone compensating for something they are lacking.
notice how i ALWAYS try to give techniques to help guys who dont get laid to GET LAID except mine isnt theory - mine is just real life examples and if they worked for me, then they'll surely work for others
 

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Nighthawk said:
That's an elegant way of saying that everyone who disagrees with your posting here is a loser, but I think you're essentially correct. I'd much rather see more action taken against the trolls and flamers than the few women that post here.

I've had women I've been seeing find this site and they were grateful that someone was teaching the males to be men.

OUCH! That wasn’t my intent, I do see how it could come off that way now, but I really meant just to show the styles.

Be it via abrasive remarks, 15 paragraph dissertations or humorous one-liners you can really tell who has “gotten it” and is living it versus those who “struggling” and generally bitter about it.

Now, go forth and teach!

Peace, Pix
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bad_Lil'Pixie said:
OUCH! That wasn’t my intent, I do see how it could come off that way now, but I really meant just to show the styles.

Be it via abrasive remarks, 15 paragraph dissertations or humorous one-liners you can really tell who has “gotten it” and is living it versus those who “struggling” and generally bitter about it.

Now, go forth and teach!

Peace, Pix

Pixie, go post ont he 30 second approach Thread, i wanna see what u think about THAT KIND of pickup attempt
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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haha, he calls himself a pimp. That's so cute!

When I was a young boy I wanted to be a fireman or I'd tie my coat around my neck like a cape and pretend I was Superman!! Kids and their imaginary little games!
 

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DonJuanForever said:
And just something to remember, when a girl actually "doesn't like a guy," she won't keep saying, " I hate you, I hate you..." she'll distance herself from him. Remember when you were a standard AFC, and you got rejected, what happened? Didn't the girl distance herself from you? That's what I thought. Now that I am very masculine, girls might say, " I hate you DJF, you get on my nerves, " what they really mean is that I won't "love them, like they wanna be loved," she really wants my attention and affection and is pissed because I won't give it to her.

DJF
Why do I think that you have some unresolved past experiences haunting you?
 

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Silverback82 said:
I always think it is weird when girls come here for advice.

it always turns into a multiple page thread too
It's weird but one of the best ways to be successful is to find out directly how they operate. My assumption is that it's primarily the guys who don't understand them, or at least aren't of the mindset to try to understand them, who are primarily having the issue.

Oh, and the multiple page threads are usually when there's a flame war going on. There's a couple of ladies online that do positively contribute with their insights.
 

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ima str8 up pimp said:
ahhh lol skip have you checked out pimpology.org? Quality isn't it? :yes:
Stop spamming other sites. You wouldn't appreciate it if that site was flooded with people telling everyone to go somewhere else, now would you? Every other post you make on here is spamming pimpology. Have a little fcuking respect for the owner of this site.

If you think that site is better, then do yourself and all of the rest of us a favor, and go there instead of coming here. Please.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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