Girls says she does not want a boyfriend

[TheAsianLoverReturns]

She's not playing him. Having sex with a guy 3-4 times a week is FAR from playing him.

Some of you are a bit too paranoid and reactive. Try to remember how girls game us when they want us. They play coy and probe and all those things.

This girl clearly wants to be his girlfriend and was rebuffed so she gave that answer. There is no need for games if you both are on the same page. OP wants her to be his gf, she wants OP to be her bf. There is zero incentive for games in that situation, when both people want the same thing.

There is such a thing as over gaming.

If you see a girl more than twice a week, that's pretty much a relationship. Frequency is the number one variable when trying to set a distance with a girl. If you see a girl for sex once every two weeks, that is a FB/FWB, etc. Once a week is acceptable but still pushing it.

However, if you see a girl several times A WEEK, that is nothing resembling a FB or FWB situation. IF you see one girl 3-4 times a week, that leaves very little time to see and meet with other girls. Same goes for her and boys(though women are slightly more devious).

I try to avoid seeing girls more than once a week, unless I need to see them more often to keep them around. If I wanted a girl to be my girlfriend, I would see her as much as possible.

Frequency versus intensity of hang-outs is one of the key differences in male/female psychology when it comes to relationships. Guys can **** a chick 4 times a week and not care one thing for her. We can also see our main girl once a week and still be very much in love.

For women, it's the opposite. For them, intensity takes a back seat to frequency and regularity.

Yes she is, read the post again.

When a woman ask you "what are we?" that's a setup. FEMALE GAME. Then read her response to his answer.

Think long and hard about that.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I NEVER want them to be my girlfriend, and they know it. This, I believe, allows us to fvck to infinity.

 

[GhostWriter]

Here's an update.

Sh0t was right. She only rebuffed my statement b/c she took it as a sign of me saying I'm not interested.

We cleared things up and all is well.

I've lived my life on both extremes. From the uber beta to the overbearing alpha.

" Compassion is a sign of strength, not weakness, but it must be displayed along with dominance and amused mastery. You associate the idea of being emotional with being a wuss, but a man can be both dominant AND somewhat emotional. He can immerse himself in his feelings – but maintain control over them rather than letting them control him." -Shark

I let her know that I was indeed interested in a relationship, in a very alpha way.

It's the middle ground of course...

Thanks to everyone for their insight.