"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls says over AIM "I this this may sound crazy..."

alphamailman

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I met this girl in a grocery store and and hung out with her a bunch. She asked me over AIM if she was just a summer fling and if I wanted to go exclusive with her. She's surprisingly clingy and disclosed personal info like why her parents got divorced, etc.

Fast forward to 2 months later, I go visit her at night. She walks me to the front door, looks at me, I slam her against the wall (not hard like I'm gonna hurt her) and make out with her.

A couple days after that on AIM, this is the convo:
Alpha: I bet you liked it
HB: I loved it
Alpha: I think you deserved it...
HB: You know, this may sound crazy...but, I think I'm really starting to like you :nervous:

At that point, I played it off all calm, saying something along the lines of "that's cool" or "I know." Should I have just pursued her as an FB, initially she might have just wanted just that?? I mean it's crazy that she's quick to reveal sh!t that doesn't necessarily need to be told.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Smack

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Why are you asking us whether you should just pursue her as a FB? Ask yourself how much you like her, and if it's enough for you to want to be in a relationship with her, enter a relationship with her!

Don't enter one because society tells you you must be in one with the girl because it's the "right thing"; don't avoid one because some people on an internet forum think it is 'unalpha'.

Make your own decisions in life.
 

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the I know line works well...........time to take it up a notch.......flirt with her more online to continue to build her horniness........then transition from virtual to real life. Do this online and its like instant kino.

If you build "it" she will come..........NUFF SAID NOW virtual seduce her and post your next move.
 
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