"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girls says over AIM "I this this may sound crazy..."

alphamailman

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I met this girl in a grocery store and and hung out with her a bunch. She asked me over AIM if she was just a summer fling and if I wanted to go exclusive with her. She's surprisingly clingy and disclosed personal info like why her parents got divorced, etc.

Fast forward to 2 months later, I go visit her at night. She walks me to the front door, looks at me, I slam her against the wall (not hard like I'm gonna hurt her) and make out with her.

A couple days after that on AIM, this is the convo:
Alpha: I bet you liked it
HB: I loved it
Alpha: I think you deserved it...
HB: You know, this may sound crazy...but, I think I'm really starting to like you :nervous:

At that point, I played it off all calm, saying something along the lines of "that's cool" or "I know." Should I have just pursued her as an FB, initially she might have just wanted just that?? I mean it's crazy that she's quick to reveal sh!t that doesn't necessarily need to be told.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Smack

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Why are you asking us whether you should just pursue her as a FB? Ask yourself how much you like her, and if it's enough for you to want to be in a relationship with her, enter a relationship with her!

Don't enter one because society tells you you must be in one with the girl because it's the "right thing"; don't avoid one because some people on an internet forum think it is 'unalpha'.

Make your own decisions in life.
 

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the I know line works well...........time to take it up a notch.......flirt with her more online to continue to build her horniness........then transition from virtual to real life. Do this online and its like instant kino.

If you build "it" she will come..........NUFF SAID NOW virtual seduce her and post your next move.
 
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