Girls "real" view on a booty call

[Bosshogg]

Hey fellows...


Slept with this girl 3 times in a matter of 2 months...pretty much her first time BUT she never really brings up the "what are we?" questions and we casually kid about it being a booty call...

Could it be possible that she is actually cool with the way things are or is their an ulterior motive...Feels too good to be true...Also, it`s the type of girl that virtually had zero experience prior...


thanks

Wyldthang:feel free to chip in

 

[everywomanshero]

Tons of girls have FBs these days. When they ask these reaction seeking, probing questions and you get serious, then you lose and she wins. She has qiuckly won over another loser who couldn't possibly know what he really wants with her yet. The man is another weak man.

That's not always true. A lot of times a girl just really likes you, and if that is the case she will chase you. The advice above should not be carried over into those situations. That is the frame I would take on the average bar chic. getting too serious with them can eb a major problem, and it can also kill her interest level pretty soon as she thinks she has you reeled in.

LOVE: When someone returns your love somewhat, but never fully.

 

[ER!C L!VE]

we casually kid about it being a booty call...

Could it be possible that she is actually cool with the way things are or is their an ulterior motive

Welcome to my world. I have three different girls who I have this type of relationship with. I could have more, but I've sworn myself to only thin, cute girls. My girlies call when they're horny, they come over, we fcuk, talk for a bit, then they go home. The next time I'll hear from them is when they're horny.

It's a win-win situation. No one gets hurt, no promises are made and we both enjoy it.

I don't call them, they call me. I don't talk about my emotions with them, or how I'm lonely (b/c I'm not). I don't make future plans with them, I don't talk baby talk with them, I don't take them out to dinner or buy them stuff. Wait..I take that back.. I once bought a girl a frappachino at a 7-11.

On a side note, my 18yo HBcutiepie has a boyfriend who she's been with for 3 years..Her bf even called while she was putting her clothes back on. :nervous:

This f-buddy thing is very common with women - single or not. Now that I'm single and in the scene, I see that most girls have f-buddies but don't tell anyone about it (It's their dirty little secret).

 

[Bosshogg]

you sound like a happy man Eric :rockon:

But the kicker is I actually like her...

been single for a few years and had my fair share of fun...trust me

 

[ER!C L!VE]

My experience is that a girl will be calling me 24/7 and want to spend every free moment with me if she's looking for more than a booty call.

 

[L777]

LOVE: When someone returns your love somewhat, but never fully.

Wow. thats the most profound single statement I've seen on this site...who, if anyone, told you it?

 

[bbestar]

sad world