"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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girls reactions to the way you kiss

jtrain 289

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I used to think that the reason why i couldnt get with girls was because they were shallow feminist *****es. but then sometimes they make moves on me and i find im the ***** . Their have been so many times when girls have come on to me and then i just freeze im so afraid that if i kiss them their gonna be like youve deffinitly never done this before you suck at kissing your a loser go away. What have been girls reactions to you guys who kiss a girl for the first time of that know you are horrible at kissing even if its not your first time? What have girl thought of you the next day
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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intrextrovert

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No they won't care. Just don't go all out, keep your tongue inside your mouth more than you'd think, do everything more slowly/softer than you'd think. Other than that just follow what she does.

**** I had a girl straight up tell me I was kissing badly one of my first few times. I fixed it and she came on to me for the rest of the night.
 

Five To One

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who cares dude. Everyone has to start somewhere.

If the fear of being a bad kisser is stopping you, how will you ever become a great kisser?

Be happy because this is something that you can change with time and practice.

have a good day
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Following_of_Me

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Exactly, it's awkward for about three seconds, then you get over it. It's not exactly hard to do. Not all girls kiss quite the same way, not all are good at it. Basically, you follow the girl for three seconds to see how she does and then work with it. Don't put too much pressure on the kiss, it's not as big a deal as most people think. For a while the first one is hard, takes a few girls to learn it's not that big a deal but eventually all guys grow a pair.
 

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if you havent had a lot of experience she will know through friends... my current gf hadnt even had a kiss before but i knew it so it wasnt weird at all... i just had to teach her a few things. most of all dont worry about it and have a damn good time
 

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you only need three girls to make your kissing great date them at the same time for better results and sluts give better advice on how to kiss. just start kissing and have them say what needs fixing then when you got it right date another and improve more then date the finisher to have her tell you your kissing is good and don't be a pansy just kiss her if your confidence is up you will be a better kisser naturally.
 

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the only way you can be a bad kisser is if you try to hard. Just dont open up your mouth too much and keep the tongue to a minimum. You wont be an amazing kisser but you definitely wont be bad. The only way to really be bad is to go all out and end up drueling or something.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The first one you kiss probably will mention it, then keep kissing you. The second might. There's a very small chance the third will. After that, you're either good enough, or you're an idiot.
 
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