"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girls on Prozac
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Tha Realnezz
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Unless you just want that nani..hell no.
foomee
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was any different than any other girl. BUT, I wasn't with her all the time, we only went out to have fun and never got emotional or too involved so I dont know what she was doing or acting like the 99% of the time I wasnt with her.
I do know she had a lot of demons in her closet though....
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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oakraiderz2
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And she did not totally volunteer the information.
I just stumbled upon it when I asked .. hey what is that pill for?
Regardless the question is brought up because I know that prozac and other drugs of that nature affects the serotonin levels.
I also read that Prozac jeopardizes one’s ability to fall in love, and stay in love, by dulling the keen edge of love and its associated libido.
The other thing is ( not that she has said anything ) but if she gets off the drug then what? My guess is that a different personality may or may not come out. Depending on how much affect the drugs had on her mind and emotional wellness this could be a very good thing or a very bad thing.
Basically i was just wondering if anyone here had problems with girls on anti-depressants.