"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls obsessed with their cats

usernamedox11

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I've seen other posters mention it here. But stay away from girls obsessed with their cats. They are not normal. My BPD ex was obsessed with her two cats. She was always talking about them as if they were humans.

I even have someone close to me who is obsessed with her cat, my sister. My sister is easily offended, moody, stomach problems, always sick, etc. She calls her cat her son and is always taking pics of it. I don't like dissing my sister and never would in real life, but I feel sorry for whoever gets in a relationship with her.

To me, this is a HUGE red flag. HUGE. Seriously. Do not get into LTRs with women who are obsessed with cats. Also, say you are in a relationship with a girl who has a cat but is not obsessed with it, if you were to tell her to get rid of the cat before you guys get married and she refuses, forget her. If she doesn't value you enough to get rid of a stupid cat, she isn't worth it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yep. Especially if she has more than one.

A girl with one cat that she's not obsessed with is fine though.

I think it's the rule of three. No more than three cats or tattoos.
 

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You can tell these chicks: "oh cool, you are obsessed with your cat! Seems we both have a love of puṣṣies!"
 

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Don't know if it was true but a long time ago on Johnny Carson Jane Fonda was a guest and asked Johnny a question about Zsa Zsa Gabor and her cat being on his show and asking him if he wanted to "pet her pvssy"...Watch the video to see what he had replied live on air. (I couldn't find the original show with Zsa Zsa on it and what he said only Jane Fonda asking him on air...)

Epic ballsy answer from Johhny! LMAO.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wRR1aKBOCOQ
 

usernamedox11

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HumbleNinja said:
Don't know if it was true but a long time ago on Johnny Carson Jane Fonda was a guest and asked Johnny a question about Zsa Zsa Gabor and her cat being on his show and asking him if he wanted to "pet her pvssy"...Watch the video to see what he had replied live on air. (I couldn't find the original show with Zsa Zsa on it and what he said only Jane Fonda asking him on air...)

Epic ballsy answer from Johhny! LMAO.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wRR1aKBOCOQ
That's pretty funny. Will use that line if a girl ever says that to me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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