"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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girls not compatible but bangable

pyros

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I was wondering...you go on a date with a girl and you realise after one or two dates that you have little in common, you find her boring, or you see major red flags etc. Do you still try to bang her?

I mean, you realised you two are not compatible, but if you 'fake it' you can get the puss-y anyway. Do you keep going? or do you stop seing her?

I've had this situation many times, so I faked it a bit, tried to seem interested in getting to know her and I got the sex, but lately I'm trying to actually find a good match, not just some girl that I dont see a future with.

It is just kind of 'lame' to keep seing a girl when you dont really click, you dont really like her, and you just have to put up with her in order to get the sex...


Experiences?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Absolutely sex can still be fair game. Here is my post from our recent rating scale thread:

logicallefty said:
This would be my LOOKS scale:

1 - needs two seats or more on the airplane and/or so ugly she scared the roaches away and put the Orkin Man out of business, :kick:

2 - Hey at least she isn't a 1, but no thanks, bye :wave:

3 - sex with Harry Carey sized beer googles, one time :eek:

4 - sex with a little help from Miller or the Blue Moon, probably just once :cheer:

5 - sex as Mother Nature intended, plate

6 - plate or potential Lucky Lady Lefty, average Plane Jane :)

7 - plate or potential Lucky Lady Lefty, above average Plane Jane ;)

8 - plate or potential Lucky Lady Lefty, hot as he|| + geeky :D

9 - plate or potential Lucky Lady Lefty, just hot as he|| to any man who is straight, not legally blind, and of good sound mind :rockon:

10 - plate or potential Lucky Lady Lefty, so hot jealous friends will cry :cry:, and I will laugh at them :crackup:

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Assuming a woman is not a complete and total c\|/nt after the date, and, she falls within my scale to lay above (3 or more), I'll still hit her so long as she is up to it. This is something that I never did in my earlier days, I always thought it had to be all or nothing, and that I was "using" the woman if I b@nged her knowing that was all the further it would go. As a DJ, we must never forget that women want and enjoy sex as much or more than we do. She wouldn't be taking advantage of me if she offered me a free steak dinner with no strings attached, so, why would I be taking advantage of her giving her a piece my sausage?
 

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Once of my plates. This average girl from college that I knee from high school. After I hit it , I was straight forward with her , I don't see my self dating you. You would think we would stop then ...I still spin her to this day. The thing for men is , if we have no interest , we rarely fall for them emotionally. Of course it includes NOT doing/ spending time with them as much. This girls is never took out ONCE , every time we met was for sex then I will disappear.
 

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pyros said:
I was wondering...you go on a date with a girl and you realise after one or two dates that you have little in common, you find her boring, or you see major red flags etc. Do you still try to bang her?

I mean, you realised you two are not compatible, but if you 'fake it' you can get the puss-y anyway. Do you keep going? or do you stop seing her?

I've had this situation many times, so I faked it a bit, tried to seem interested in getting to know her and I got the sex, but lately I'm trying to actually find a good match, not just some girl that I dont see a future with.

It is just kind of 'lame' to keep seing a girl when you dont really click, you dont really like her, and you just have to put up with her in order to get the sex...

Experiences?
Simple...she's just a low level plate, you should treat her as such....

I had a girl like that a few years back and she was strictly used her for "tongue" practice and taking her back to my place. She was slightly on the chunky side but all and all not bad. She had to go back home to her country at the end of the summer so no true loss there.

My question to you is "are you spinning plates?" cause if you were and had many options you wouldn't be dwelling on just one who's really not worth your time...
 
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