"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls, military, and infidility

Moofahsa

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I think you will be screwed.

I party with a lot of guys AND GIRLS from Iraq or that have husbands in iraq.

It is pathetic man, I wouldn't trust it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Big Eee Zee

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itishe said:
I've always wanted to fight in the IDF (Israeli Defense Forces) and perhaps US Navy or Army after that. While I'm not going to let a girlfriend direct what I want to do in life, I'm a bit concerned if I can even have the relationship after I leave.

I like my girl alot and she is crazy about me (as a side note I also took her virginity which may make her more connect to me since I'm her first). But after seeing stuff in the media, movies such as Jarhead, and even hearing stories from friends a few years older than me who come back from the Marines to notice they are no longer in a relationship.

While I'm sure you never hear about the relationships that work and no cheating occurs, I'm still a bit disturbed by this "percieved" truth. Anyone here have experience in this area or have a friend who went off to serve and had a working relationship?

sorry man, but if you took her Vcard then she will leave you. Unless she is religious (doubtful since you are sexually active) or a one in a million deal, you are doomed. Unfortunately all women are similar, and they all start to "wonder" if your sex is good, or if there is better sex out there.

Im not bitter about it, but it does seem to hold true for the most part.
 

itishe

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I seem to see alot of "sorry dude, she will cheat", "she will leave". Do understand I can get other ass, it's just she's a good girl. I'm just curious what the chances are of her staying faithful if we were to stay together. She doesn't seem like a cheater, I believe she'd leave before she'd cheat, but looks can always been deceiving.
 
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