"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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girls lying for no reason... wtf...

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a girl today jus confessed to me a list of things she lied to me about! simple things such as where she studies, what she's taking and where she's from...

wtf hell... whats the point her lying? i asked why she lied and she told me "nothing", "i dont know" and "sorry".

am i missing something here?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KiInCollege

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Ooh, red flag, buddy. Hey, sit her down and really emphasize that there's no need to lie, ever. Trust is important to you. If she doesn't stop lying, drop her.
 

biker_gixxer

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drop her. if she lies about small stuff, don't expect her to tell the truth about something major.
 

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Ask her why she lied. She may be trying to qualify herself. I know I've lied about age before to qualify myself (it was a situation where I had to regardless).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hollowpoint

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Originally posted by KiInCollege
Ooh, red flag, buddy. Hey, sit her down and really emphasize that there's no need to lie, ever. Trust is important to you. If she doesn't stop lying, drop her.
Wow.......maybe red flag, that's really messed up.


Edit: I meant to say 'major' :D
 
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Pimp-sicle

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NEXT!!!! Girls that lie about stupid shiat, ALWAYS lie about big shiat. And the worst part about it is if you get emotionally attached then you'll ignore the flashing light bulbs in your head and get fuvked over. Not to mention that you'll always question whether she's telling the truth or not no matter what she tells you.


LIARS = CHEATERS = MANIPULATERS= LOSERS




PIMP
 

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Most people lie because of low self-esteem. If it's about a major or a school she attends, she wanted to lie to show you that she's intelligent and worthy. I use to do that too, thinking that no one would respect me if I said I was studying forestry.
 

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RED FLAG!!!!

Lying is a deal breaker. I woiuldn't have anything else to do with this girl. You gave a list of things she confessed to lying about...is it a total list? Are there more things she lied about.? How do you know that she isn't lying about that too?
 

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:eek: Next should be the name of this board.

Red flag blah blah blah

Okay, I'm gonna get raped here by the horde who posted the nonsense above. But lets look at your risks vs. your rewards.

Risks,

a.) dating a psycho- probability 10%(its common with women)

b.) dating an insecure chick 60%(no matter what people tell you, these are the best kind, they will never leave you and can pretty much be turned into servants)

c.) dating a girl who wasnt sure if she wanted to keep talking to you or not when you first met, so to keep your stalker ass from tracking her down, she lied a little 5%(paranoia, its a mother ....)

d.) dating a christian chick of some sort that thinks she is going to hell. after talking to her preacher daddy and nanny mom she decided that truth will set her free. 1% its possible but if she is one of those you need to dump her.

e.) dating a pathalogical liar, she will keep lying to and so she lied here to cover up a future big lie by seeming like she cant keep a secret. 20% (these deceptive *****es are common)

f.) i dont know wtf she wants to accomplish. 4%(hey i aint all mighty)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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