"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FALCONDAWG79

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okay here is the deal. everytime i go out to basically anywhere, a restaurant, the beach, walmart, blockbuster, etc. there always are girls who i dont know that look at me alot. im pretty sure it's the "i like u" look but im not sure. in my drivers ed class this one girl stared at me like all day and every time i looked her way she quickly looked away. when i finally talked to her she sounded very interested in my comments as did another girl in my class. At school many girls look at me and i think they wanna talk to me but usually im too shy to approach them. by what ive said do girls like me or not?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Um.......Here's an idea...... Grab your balls and talk to them!!!!! Who gives a flying f*** if you stuff up, there's plenty more fish in the sea.. Once you talk to them you will know whether or not they like you. It's as simple as that

~Peace Out
 

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Umm... Are you braging or is that a question that even the dumbest person in the world would get right.
 

Maybnoob

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Why are people calling him a moron for. I was in the same situation as you a while ago, infact i even made a thread practically exactly the same as yours except i got flamed and it was deleted.
Well i dont know, since im so insecure. I have the same problem, i aint gonna lie im very handsome. But im so dams insecure (childhood problems) and when i catch girls staring at me i initially think oh she likes me then the insecurity kicks in and i think is there something on my nose and i start fidgiting and well i become very nervious. Trust me if it happens all the time they do think your nice, i mean there cant be something like a booger hanging out your nose everyday can it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thanks to the people actually took my post seriously, for the others screw you guys
 

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Originally posted by Bling
You're a moron.
Haha...smart move. Im gonna say idiot instead...my first thought.

You seem like one of those guys thats real smart and sh!t cause thats the stupidest thing ive ever heard.
 

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GRAB YOUR ****, and be glad you have it easier than some of us, who work at it and still get more ass that you becuase you dont have the balls to ante up to go talk to a girl. What are you scared of rejection, well learn to get over it, that is the number 2 rule of DJs, behine maybe having confidence, which is related to not fearing rejection.
 

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its like 2 at night... i dun wanna read the other posts right now... im just gonna reply to the first post...

OK your getting attention you dam Attention Wh0re!!! lol you have it easy.... girls go for your looks, now without the attitude, your as good a DJ as my hairy rat a$$. So now go up to those girls and talk to them you shy rat bas-turd!

They arent gonna like you for having a face that girls admire....
 

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I'm sorry at the fact that the poster might actually be serious. But I'm cracking up over here. This is a time where reading the DJ Bible might actually be handy. I think Pook makes it very clear in his posts on how to get the mindset right. Just talk to the girls man. They're just girls.. lol. Imagine if they were guys that you wanted to meet. You'd be over there and be like "Hey what up man." All that stuff. And what about the girls? You think you have to be "How's it going madame?" Get it over with. They are just girls.

"Stop staring at my ass." Thats sure to get a few shocks. Easy openner. Enjoy man.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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