"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Iv read some great replies from my other threads about friendzones and being a nice guy.

what do you do when a girl leads you on? This is a lot harder than when a girl acts not interrsted. Believe it or not im good at nexting and understanding when shes not interested. Its the attention *****s and girls leading you on that piss me off. Like they know youre really interested. How do we guys beat that? I always feel like u should give them the benefit of the doubt
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do we guys beat that? I always feel like u should give them the benefit of the doubt

By treating her the same way as you would a girl "not interested" in you. Their one in the same...but attention wh0res seek to receive something from you while giving you nothing in return. I recently had a girl who was an attention wh0re...always contacting me on facebook, texting me randomly, etc. But every time I would try to escalate or set up a date she would have none of it. I stopped talking to her. Period. Follow suit...
 
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TheException said:
How do we guys beat that? I always feel like u should give them the benefit of the doubt

By treating her the same way as you would a girl "not interested" in you. Their one in the same...but attention wh0res seek to receive something from you while giving you nothing in return. I recently had a girl who was an attention wh0re...always contacting me on facebook, texting me randomly, etc. But every time I would try to escalate or set up a date she would have none of it. I stopped talking to her. Period. Follow suit...
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great advice and i know this. But they act like they are interested in you?
 
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great advice and i know this. But they act like they are interested in you?

Key word being "act"^

They never have any intention of actually being interested in you or giving you sex. So why even tease yourself? Theres plenty of women that will find you attractive and fvck you...no need to try to please attention seekers.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lamobatsman said:
Iv read some great replies from my other threads about friendzones and being a nice guy.

what do you do when a girl leads you on? This is a lot harder than when a girl acts not interrsted. Believe it or not im good at nexting and understanding when shes not interested. Its the attention *****s and girls leading you on that piss me off. Like they know youre really interested. How do we guys beat that? I always feel like u should give them the benefit of the doubt
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Its not that hard to weed out the attention wh0res. Its as simple as understanding how horny women who are ATTRACTED to you act:

- They want to impress you
- They want to please you
- They are available

The last one is key --> availability. They will always have time for you and want to be around you (just like you are with a girl you like). That's really all any man needs to know.

If she refuses to follow your lead.. then she ain't interested. Its not complex. You just have to have the strength to accept it and not kid yourself.
 
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yea look at actions not words females love haveing somebody by their side and will do anything for that not having time is bull**** unless shes a ceo of a fortune 500 company lmao
 
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Yes, some women are attention hors. No doubt about it.

But others might seem that way but are doing something else.

A woman, whether she has a boyfriend or not, will often put many fishing lines in the water, just to see if anything interesting bites.

Hypergamy, right? Always be looking for an upgrade and so on.

So, a woman might be providing her own attention to several guys at a time all the while not seriously pursuing any one of them for future sex/dating.

That's girl game. It will often seem to the guy that she's leading him on and perhaps in a way she is.

The attention hor clearly is in search for male validation. She's less leading you on than simply using you, even though it feels like leading you on.

The girl fishing with many lines in the water is keeping her options open in case the right sort of alpha kock comes along. And, yes, this also leads to the feeling of being led on. And that maybe be in fact happening.

The second girl can also easily turn into the first.

Thus, the mantra repeated over and over on these boards: ignore what they say, pay attention to what they do.
 
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