Girls kissing: darty tongue?

[TommiV]

Guys,
Is it just me but any time I kiss close a girl she ends up doing that "darty tnongue" thing. Its a real turn off, why do they do it? Do most people kiss like this?

Any time I manage to kiss close a girl in a club, all usually goes well until she opens her mouth. All bar, like 2 girls recently have done this... they open their mouth and you have this hard pointy tongue darting into your mouth.
I mean, what do you do with that?

Now, I'm NOT meaning you should go in with a slobery wet tongue but I always heard you when you open your mouth to keep your tongue soft, and "massage" each others tongues... the occasional girl goes along with this... the rest do the darting their tongue around like they're spear fishing... what do you do?

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

Tongue fencing! Seriously though,just tell them (physically and verbally) that you will take the lead and control the kiss.

 

[BuckwildNYC]

Most girls don't kiss like that but I HATE the ones that do. That's why it's bullshyt that people always say that girls are so much better at this relationship thing than we are. How good can u be if u don't even know how to kiss, geez.

Just take control. Grab her face gently and say slow, slow. Then go for the kiss again. If she does it again then pull back and tell her you like to kiss slow, "relax and let me show you". I prefer the direct approach. She'll apreciate a man who can guide her and teach her something. If she gets offended just next her. A bad kisser will probably be bad in bed too.