Girls in the club literally shake their head at me when I smile?

[alx]

Is this a "courtesy" they extend to everyone? Or just guys they really don't like the look of? I was well dressed, strutting my stuff on the floor, etc. Don't want to turn round and smile at a girl only to have her shake her head in disgust... I hadn't attempted to move near her or chat her up, it's just cold.

One girl did want to dance at the precise moment I was looking elsewhere and not paying attention, missed opportunity completely according to my mate and that hurt a little.

I kind of hate the club. Seems like UK clubs are designed just to take as much of your money as they can and they don't care if you have a good time or not if you cause a problem their security people will just **** you up.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Dont take it personally, that courtesy is extended to whoever doesnt match the higher end of the look range and sometime even them.

The problem with the clubs is that the default frame of the environment is that girls are the prize, guys are pigs and any guy is worthless and to be considered annoying untill proven otherwise....girls which are naturally sheep minded just follow such frame without questioning it.

When I said untill proven otherwise I mean stuff like being seen with a hotter girl, being introduced from some common cool friend and so on or even be recognized and well treated from the staff.

Regarding the uk club, I can talk about the ones in London which I visited few years ago and unless you're a gay guy interested in black and indian guys (which were the majority of the crowd) just skip it, everything is expensive and crowded with men, also the amount of "pick up artists" was already growing back then with all the conseguences of it, "c0cky and funny" d1ckheads everywhere parrotting game.