"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls in my class talking about men and dating

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In one of my college classes we were talking about relationships. There were about 15 girls in there and they had some interesting things to say like...

A guy should pay for everything on a date.

They hate nice guys.

When a guy gets a girls number he should call that day or the next. Any later than that they might forget about you and think you chickened out.

Money is very important.

They claim to be just as horny as men.

Discuss:)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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penkitten

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uhmmm that was just a rant...
the chicks that were doing most of the talking,, they were on the rag, had a bad hair day, found out they gained ten pounds and some body stood em up.

they didnt mean anything haha
 

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A guy should pay for everything on a date.
Why?? Girls these days have just as much money as guys. I don't see why guys should pay.. Because they have to earn the girls interest?? Oh please!


They hate nice guys.
They hate desperate guys.


When a guy gets a girls number he should call that day or the next. Any later than that they might forget about you and think you chickened out.
No, they are worried that the guy has more things to do than calling her on the phone. It makes them insecure so yeah, they hate it when the guy waits a while to call.


Money is very important.
Yes. Girls should have some.


They claim to be just as horny as men.
Okay, this I second.
 

McKindley

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I used to get in huge arguments with a girl friend of mine on this subject. I beleive you should take anything women have to say about dating with a grain of salt.

Girls will talk about the way they THINK they act in given situations. Not necessarily the way they actually are. Look at the way girls react to really sappy romantic movies. They start crying when the guy does stuff for a girl that, in real life, a girl would probably think you're a stalker for doing.

A guy should pay for everything on a date: I've heard conflicting ideas on this issue FROM GIRLS. There are plenty of girls out there who are uncomfortable letting the guy pay for everything. They don't want to feel like they owe him anything. Offer to pay, and if she wants to pay for her part, don't put up much of a fight.

Aside from that Chazz summed it up pretty good.

And the whole "money is important" thing. Remember, these are the types of girls who WANT to have a guy take care of them. Which should lead you to believe that they might not/probably don't have much expectation of they, themselves, having good carreers and making money. So beware.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What girls say and what they do are two different worlds. Do exactly the opposite of what girls say to knock them off.



A guy should pay for everything on a date.



I expect her to pay for half or more of everything on first date.



They hate nice guys.



I hate women who take advantage of nice guys.



When a guy gets a girls number he should call that day or the next. Any later than that they might forget about you and think you chickened out.



Sure, When I ask for a girl's number, I dial it in my cell phone and call her right away to pass my number back to her.



Money is very important.



Wow, Really.



They claim to be just as horny as men.



Men and Women have different views of being horny.
 
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