"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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girls I meet are less than my ex...

pyros

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Hi there.

So the thing is that I broke up with my last gf two years ago, and since that moment I've met and banged several girls but none of them were as good as my ex.
What I mean is that my ex gf was pretty cute (HB7.8), very femenine, very clean, always smelling excellent, funy, we had similar studies, similar family...sex was very good etc

However, I had to break up with her because after a few years I realised she was a manipulator, liar, selfish etc

I've met many girls but the majority of them were not as attractive as my ex, just one was another HB7.8 but it did not last. The rest were between 6 and 7.2
Many of them were nuts or had some kind of disorder. Others were just slu-ts at 22 years old, one smelled pretty bad down there, another was still texting and talking to her ex, another was pretty cute but she liked to dress like a homeless...you get the general idea.

For example, Ive been on four dates with this girl. She's just a HB6.3, pretty funy, outgoing, seems pretty sexual but...she's been a total slu-t in previous years, still talking to her ex, she was a bit fat last year and now she's a bit too thin. We were making out and I noticed she had a bit of bad breath which turned me off...see? I dont know if its bad luck or what it is.

It's getting annoying and boring.

Did this ever happened to you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheGambino

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Typical oneitis homie.

It's ok I'm in the same situation, my favorit plate I had to leave in Morocco, it was the best sex it's ridiculous how we were vibing in bed. can't think about someone else and all the girls I slept with lateley are boring and not giving me the same satisfaction. Even when were out I don't have as much fun as with the plate.

But we have to keep looking, keep spinning and eventually you'll find another plate thats better then your ex or previous plate because I thought the same about the girls before the one Im talking about. Can't even remember my first oneitis you know what I mean

Spin plates you will forget her and find new better chicks im 100% sure ;)
 

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pyros said:
Hi there.

So the thing is that I broke up with my last gf two years ago, and since that moment I've met and banged several girls but none of them were as good as my ex.
What I mean is that my ex gf was pretty cute (HB7.8), very femenine, very clean, always smelling excellent, funy, we had similar studies, similar family...sex was very good etc

However, I had to break up with her because after a few years I realised she was a manipulator, liar, selfish etc

I've met many girls but the majority of them were not as attractive as my ex, just one was another HB7.8 but it did not last. The rest were between 6 and 7.2
Many of them were nuts or had some kind of disorder. Others were just slu-ts at 22 years old, one smelled pretty bad down there, another was still texting and talking to her ex, another was pretty cute but she liked to dress like a homeless...you get the general idea.

For example, Ive been on four dates with this girl. She's just a HB6.3, pretty funy, outgoing, seems pretty sexual but...she's been a total slu-t in previous years, still talking to her ex, she was a bit fat last year and now she's a bit too thin. We were making out and I noticed she had a bit of bad breath which turned me off...see? I dont know if its bad luck or what it is.

It's getting annoying and boring.

Did this ever happened to you?
It's fairly typical but you're also guilty of idealizing and pedastaling your ex. The 7.8 version of her was jsut what see wanted you to see. The whole version is the manipulation, lying etc whch doesn't make her a 7.8 to begin within.

The good news is that you now have characteristics that you've identified that are important for the enxt girl you want to get serious with so don't sell yourself short.

The 6.3 might be nice filler but you're wasting your time and her time if you're just not into it. Don't settle because there's nothing better at the moment.
 
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