"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girls Hating Each Other

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What is it that makes women hate each other? I know they all have friends and all, but the behind-the-back gossip is something else. I know men can be guilty of it, too, but in my own personally experience when I have a problem with another guy I just say "he's an a**hole and that's that.

I'm wondering because It's funny to listen to my lady friends say "oh she's a slut" or "she's weird" etc and then when they see one another it's all "i heart you" and that bullcrap.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KontrollerX

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Jealousy and envy makes them compete against eachother constantly.

Its funny when a pretty girl is jealous of another's looks when they are about equal in attractiveness but it makes sense when you realize that both of them want to be the prettiest girl in the room and thats not possible if they are both equally hot is it?
 

Ken785

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The thing is...a lot of guys are like that too! Guys that act like *****es talking about that he said she said sh!t and talking crap behind each others backs...thats a feminine trait...but a lot of guys i know have it. Funny thing is they also claim to be alpha-male and "Men".
 

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wutangfinancial said:
there are only a few high status men at the top which all women lust after..they will kill each other to have those men's babies. I can only imagine what its like to be such a man...I've met them, and you have too...they're reallu ****y and obnoxious, but they can get away with it...
cAN you describe these men u talk about??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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