"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girls hate boring - real life example

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her: see, we can still agree on some things
Skip2MyLou781: few, but we agree on the good ones
her: what, you don't think we agree on a lot of things?
Skip2MyLou781: its ok tho, we get to discuss alot of things that wya
her: at least our conversations are never boring


im sorry but her keyword there was BORING, and shes glad im not boring......

this is 1 of my fvck buddies, the one that thinks shes my gf.....and part of the reason she wants me so much is cuz IM NOT BORING

so, DONT BE BORING, DO EVERYTHING U CAN TO NOT BE BORING THE LEAST BIT

its been said b4, but that was a prime time example of a girl admitting it without even knowing it
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Really? Oh my god you are a genius!!!

I always thought women LOVED boring guys. All this time I've been trying to pick up women by telling them about the rising prices of public transport and statistics. I always thought if I said something interesting to women they would think I was repulsive!

Wow, this post is a revelation!!!!!!!
 

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The Truth said:
Really? Oh my god you are a genius!!!

I always thought women LOVED boring guys. All this time I've been trying to pick up women by telling them about the rising prices of public transport and statistics. I always thought if I said something interesting to women they would think I was repulsive!

Wow, this post is a revelation!!!!!!!
Why does it seem like everyone is sarcastic on the board? skip2mylou781 has made some credible post before in the past,so consider your actions before flaming. Its always good to have a reminder every once and awhile.
 

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blinkwatt said:
Why does it seem like everyone is sarcastic on the board? skip2mylou781 has made some credible post before in the past,so consider your actions before flaming. Its always good to have a reminder every once and awhile.
Some guys here have trouble with women, but they are not stupid! I don't think we need a reminder about things so obvious. And Skip is one of the least credible guys on this board in my opinion.
 

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Oh, here's a reminder......

Girls like guys who don't piss themselves in their company. So remember to empty your bladder in a toilet, not in your pants!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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skip2mylou781 said:
her: see, we can still agree on some things
Skip2MyLou781: few, but we agree on the good ones
her: what, you don't think we agree on a lot of things?
Skip2MyLou781: its ok tho, we get to discuss alot of things that wya
her: at least our conversations are never boring


im sorry but her keyword there was BORING, and shes glad im not boring......

this is 1 of my fvck buddies, the one that thinks shes my gf.....and part of the reason she wants me so much is cuz IM NOT BORING

so, DONT BE BORING, DO EVERYTHING U CAN TO NOT BE BORING THE LEAST BIT

its been said b4, but that was a prime time example of a girl admitting it without even knowing it
This is also just one girl. Obviously not every girl is going to be that blunt. That and the fact that this is common sense. Guys wouldn't want to talk to boring guys either, so I think this just applies to humans in general.
 

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ey skip, I had a similer revelation:

L777: So, do you like that guy?
Girl: No, he's a d.ickhead.

Girls don't like di.ckheads....WOW!!!

Come on man, get a f.ucking clue
 

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blinkwatt said:
Why does it seem like everyone is sarcastic on the board? skip2mylou781 has made some credible post before in the past,so consider your actions before flaming. Its always good to have a reminder every once and awhile.
Yeah.. I thought his post was like you said.. a good reminder.. No need for everyone to start making fun of his posts..
 

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Guys don't knock this thread.. however petty the information may sound, I'm sure it's useful to someone..
In fact I only just found out that girls hate guys who have the word F.U.C.K tattooed on their forehead. :(
I wish there was a thread like this to warn me before I got it done.
Worst $400 I ever spent!
 

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i'm guessing this was a myspace chat, and this girl isn't your **** buddy otherwise you wouldn't be creaming your pants over her telling you that your not boring
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rocker said:
Guys don't knock this thread.. however petty the information may sound, I'm sure it's useful to someone..
In fact I only just found out that girls hate guys who have the word F.U.C.K tattooed on their forehead. :(
I wish there was a thread like this to warn me before I got it done.
Worst $400 I ever spent!
Hilarious!

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

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i'm guessing this was a myspace chat, and this girl isn't your **** buddy otherwise you wouldn't be creaming your pants over her telling you that your not boring
Thats the exact same thing I thought too!

Sounds like this guy uses Myspace a lot and tries to adapt his theories to real life pick ups.
 

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Although this tip makes most guys say "no duh" I could think of several threads that have been about guys not wanting to go out and sarge, not wanting to get out and do things for one excuse or another.

I remember one post which said that lying about what you do during your free time would impress a woman. I say get out there and actually do interesting things and women will find you more interesting.

Although, there's a few guys here that believe that women don't really care about what you do. I say that these guys were just going out with women who weren't interested in them.
 

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nope ive fvcked her many times...this is my "gf", but to me shes just a fvck buddy. This up top was just a convo we were having on AIM and wow....nice sarcasm by the usual resident flamers who NEVER make any decent remarks on any threads in the first place.

wat i was doing here was providing a real life example of wat we all read on sosuave that is just theory.

theory - girls want ANYTHING but to be bored, AFCs dont understand that, its written somewhere in the don juan bible for boring to be the LAST thing that u wanna be, because that is the #1 way to make a girl lose interest.

This convo i had with the girl, its proof and backup to the theory, since this is a discussion forum where people give advice, i wanted to show real life proof to backup that theory.

btw, she says im not boring, and wat i forgot to mention is that im usually a ****y ******* to her but in a joking manner and hey - donjuanbynature - i mentally abuse the shyt outta her aka i control her, pin her down, all that shyt u talekd about b4 - works like magic cuz she just keeps callin and sayin i love u and hey, she doesnt kno wat to expect from me, so thats the way it needs to be!
 

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I'm not gonna flame the obviousness of this thread.

I just want to add that this is why your dates should be FUN! If you get caught up in strategies, and wondering what to do and when to do it, getting all tense and just wishing you could fast forward to the sex, then it's going to be a boring date.

Make every moment you spend with a girl a fun and enjoyable occasion.
 

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Useful info. Do not be boring. *writes down in notebook* :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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im not tellin anyone somethin that they didnt already kno, but this is more like me posting the confession of the girl about wat was written about her on sosuave,

she basically meant yea we argue alot, we disagree on things alot, and she LOVES IT cuz its not boring
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
i mentally abuse the shyt outta her aka i control her, pin her down, all that shyt u talekd about b4
intelligent AND classy. This guy's the real deal
 

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LOL i did it in a PLAYFUL way, thats wat u do with chicks...play with them, they play back - she wasnt screaming or scared, she played along and had fun.

do u post anything except for sarcastic *****ing l777?
 
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Hey this is a great reminder thread, sometimes and perhaps maybe some guys could relate to it.

Skip the problem is, and I've said this before, when you make a thread, it just sounds like a copy and paste rather than a guy telling his real life experience. Now, I'm not saying you don't get laid, you should be getting laid all over the place, it's just your threads seem more like a copy and paste than a experienced guy giving his experience.

What Skip is trying to say, is HAVE A LIFE. When a guy goes out and increases his masculinity and forms his own social circle, he has excitment, fun, thrill, everything, there's no way someone can fall asleep being with you because they'll be afraid they might miss something........but honestly, I don't care what women want. Who cares if women don't want boring guys? Skip, it should be turned around. If you read my last thread, you should know by now, and the question needs to be to HER: ARe you boring? Can she add some spice to my world?

I hate boring women. What type of energy and thrill does she bring? I told you guys, we have the same power as them, stop trying to please them and work for them, make them work for you. Increase your masculinity so now she wants your dyck, and make her work for it, similar, to how women did us. (I said did, because they shouldn't be doing it to you anymore.)

Rock on. :rockon:
 

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Jariel said:
I'm not gonna flame the obviousness of this thread.

I just want to add that this is why your dates should be FUN! If you get caught up in strategies, and wondering what to do and when to do it, getting all tense and just wishing you could fast forward to the sex, then it's going to be a boring date.

Make every moment you spend with a girl a fun and enjoyable occasion.
This tip could also be listed in the "no duh" category but you would be surprised how many threads have been posted where guys are focused on the goal of bedding the woman without knowing how to get there. You see the threads all the time; the "Got a hot date tonight and I need help IMMEDIATELY" type threads.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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