"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girls give up after no RIO

Canadian Catnip

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Hi Guys.

Still asking the same questions again. Guess I'm having a hard time getting this stuff to sink in.

I'm 45 and often I get attention from younger women in the mid to early twenties.

It always seems to go the same with me. They show some interest, chat, act really nice, ask me my name or ask me for contact info, etc.

Unfortunately I alway seem to doubt these IOI's because of my age. I think, why would a pretty young girl like her want to have anything to do with me?

Anyway, I tend to wait and see if they are really interested or not. But before long they give up because of no ROI or no Return On Investment. I wait too long and they basically give up.

This has happened to me about a half dozen times in the last year.

How can I get over this belief that I have that I'm too old for some of these women?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WaterTiger

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Canadian Catnip said:
Unfortunately I alway seem to doubt these IOI's because of my age. I think, why would a pretty young girl like her want to have anything to do with me?


How can I get over this belief that I have that I'm too old for some of these women?

Simple...have sex with them! Who cares WHY they approach you! Get their phone numbers! Take them home! Let them call you DADDY!

You are throwing away what most guys here would give their left nut for!
 

Canadian Catnip

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WaterTiger said:
Simple...have sex with them! Who cares WHY they approach you! Get their phone numbers! Take them home! Let them call you DADDY!

You are throwing away what most guys here would give their left nut for!

This advice is coming from a women right? :)
 

GuanYu

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WaterTiger said:
Simple...have sex with them! Who cares WHY they approach you! Get their phone numbers! Take them home! Let them call you DADDY!

You are throwing away what most guys here would give their left nut for!
Easier said then done. what you said isn't even really advice - you're not suggesting anything he do that's not already on his mind. He's a man remember? First thing we think about when it comes to women is sex.

Anyway bro, what you need to do is don't let your age be a hinderance. Use it to your advantage. If age is really holding you back, try to treat each woman you'd treat one your own age. I'm younger then you, but I'm pretty sure the game is no different amongst our generations. Chat up a woman, get her number, call her up to set up a date and follow suit.

Also when you come up with lame excuses like your age not enabling you to game a chick young enough to be your daughter that's your ego and lack of confidence getting the best of you. Do something (workout, extra hobbies, have a general don't give a fvck what people think of me attitude) to lose some of that chump in you and become a strong man. If you have to work on your inner self do so, but there's no reason why anything should be a blockade for you sexing some women.

Hope that helps
 
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