So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
migel... it seems that you are throwing out like half the evidence to suit you're own cause here... either thatmaybe it's that one of the few actual players on this site doesn't count.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
So pimp its scary said:OMG there is no pleasing you.
Ok princess, do you count the times where I've been in the car and shouted at women? Or where I've been in the car and a different guy shouted something at a woman? How about the dozens of women that I've hit on everywhere? Does that count? Do you want me to tell you about guys I've seen hit on waitresses? or maybe at the beach, are you gonna count the guys I've seen hit on girls get hit on at the beach?
Or are you gonna cry about all of those cause they don't count for some reason?? Cause I don't want to offend our lil princess over here... I still hate to see a woman cry. maybe you should change your tampon, and we'll talk.
http://www.misterpoll.com/results.mpl?id=1469856479AudiTy said:Interesting results, where on the net was this poll taken?
-AudiTy =o
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'm not sure if thats too true tbh, even though you'd think that. it could quite be the possibilty that the hotter women get hit on less than the more average looking ones because most guys aint got the balls to approach really hot woman or they think she is probably already taken so they tend to aproach ones that ain't so hot so they feel more confident about approaching someone who they feel better than.So pimp its scary said:but (I'll use science description) the hotness of the woman is proportional to the number of times she gets hit on in an average week.
I think some woman will say cat calling or even just some guy coming up and speaking to her (even if they don't ask for a number or ****) as being approaching them..thats why sometimes you get these girls who say like they get approached serveral times a daily.So pimp its scary said:Ok... that raises another question then... do you count driving past a girl giving a cat call as hitting on?? If so, then yes it's true what I said... if you don't count it, that you are only counting legitimate approaches where the guy asks for the number... well, I'd say you are probly right.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.