Girls, Gay guys and Bi women

[Naughty Ninja]

Never really understood why females love to have gay male friends. Is it that they really like the male company but get off on the fact the gay dude doesn't want them? Or the gay guy is more in touch with his feminine side? And or the gay guy likes to talk and listen to what they have to blab about? Are they considered a "safe" opposite sex friend? Do AFC/orbiters fall into that kind of category with the gay dudes?

Also Bi women have told me that two women together isn't the same as two men and isn't considered "gay" as it's not the same thing??


I'm sorry but gay dudes, Bi's, Lesbos to me have a mental disease.

 

[InternalCombustion]

Never really understood why females love to have gay male friends. Is it that they really like the male company but get off on the fact the gay dude doesn't want them? Or the gay guy is more in touch with his feminine side? And or the gay guy likes to talk and listen to what they have to blab about? Are they considered a "safe" opposite sex friend? Do AFC/orbiters fall into that kind of category with the gay dudes?

It's simple. Women enjoy male attention, even if it comes from homos. And you are right: AFCs and homos do fall in the same category. They are "safe" friends who will listen to a woman's blabber without trying to push her for sex.

 

[Lexington]

Well the stereotypical gay guy (and we all know at least one) isn't just in touch with his feminine side, he pretty much is a chick. I think girls just consider them to be chick friends.

 

[DonGorgon]

Women are secretly attracted to gay men !!! FACT.. they date them have kids for them and marry them.. they pretend that gay men are just their "friends" women's brains do not process male homosexuality when they are attracted to the man.. women's carnal urges direct them to seek out a good looking male who they perceive as being able to take care of them and their offspring..

When they find a man that they qualify for those things they don not see his gayness and a disqualifying factor can they can still get pregnant by him and still get his money.. Most of the characteristics that make a man gay are very irresistible to women..

 

[kingsam]

see this article ...
http://blogs.discovermagazine.com/80beats/2008/06/16/172/

its called "A Gay Man’s Brain Looks a Lot Like a Straight Woman’s Brain"
so... basically many gay men (esp the more femine ones) are women (brains) in a man body ...
guys observe any gays you know, they can relate very well to women, the women talk to these gays like they are tlaking to other women, which is different to how they'd talk to men...

 

[DonGorgon]

see this article ...
http://blogs.discovermagazine.com/80beats/2008/06/16/172/

its called "A Gay Man’s Brain Looks a Lot Like a Straight Woman’s Brain"
so... basically many gay men (esp the more femine ones) are women (brains) in a man body ...
guys observe any gays you know, they can relate very well to women, the women talk to these gays like they are tlaking to other women, which is different to how they'd talk to men...

and they sleep with these men also..

 

[Bladerunner]

They are "safe" friends who will listen to a woman's blabber without trying to push her for sex.

This. I see it played out over and over again. Women like having a guy around who they can feel completely "safe" with because there is zero sexual tension to "complicate" things. The gay guy doesn't mind this relationship at all because a) he's not trying to get anything from her like an AFC is, and b) it is hard for him to have male friends because they're either straight, and it's somewhat awkward or gay, in which case there's sexual tension making it not a "friendship".

 

[todays_news]

I'm sorry but gay dudes, Bi's, Lesbos to me have a mental disease.

A very ignorant point of view. Get with the 21st century, people should do what they want without being judged by other people. People being gay or lesbians is not something that bothers me, unless you've been gang raped by a group of men it shouldnt bother you either.

Hell, if anything its a ****ing good way of meeting hot girls, as they flock to the gay man. As for why... I reckon its simply because its fashionable among women to have a gay best friend.

 

[DonGorgon]

I'm sorry but gay dudes, Bi's, Lesbos to me have a mental disease.

you are right but when something becomes so wide spread t either has to be eradicated or accepted.. it has been accepted... so you must go along with it or be the ostracized for not accepting cultural changes..