"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls from highschool

VikingKing

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So in highschool i was kind of shy. I didnt get much ass. Any ways I hit this girl up on facebook randomly and here is the conversation.

Me: I always thought you were hot, since highschool
I was just to shy to ask you out. this part is a lie

her: To shy what? Ur crazy ! U never seemed shy to me but **** u should of cause ur fine as hell lmao!

me:brooke
I was always kind of quiet in highschool

her:HA! I didn't think so... I always thought u were "to cool" to give me a chance lol for real...

me: Thats funny
I dated a couple of girls from highschool after highschool
and they told me how they were into me a lot, but I had no idea
So weird

her: Lol! Yelp totally...

her: U still live in xxxxx area?

me: really? you didnt notice me that much
I live in xxxxx

her: I noticed u a lot!!! Lol but like I said I thought u were "to cool" to give me a time of day! Lol but trust me I noticed u n did all through high school.. But I was super hyper n acted like a crazy most of high school lol

me: wow
I'd still love to tear that ass up brooke

her: Oh I'm sure darlin! N ur so ****in my type of lord! I'd make ur head spin.. But I live in ohio


She has a boyfriend.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nice. Getting validation from other dudes. What a wh0re
 

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She's just teasing you. Girls get off knowing they can tease other men while in a relationship. It lets them know they are still validated by other men. It would be akin to a guy saying, "my pimp game is still strong after all these years".
 

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Actually. This girl isn't ugly, but I'm better looking then her. I bet if me and her hang out and drank a bit she would put out.

You guys need to understand I look masculine.

I mean you guys may have had a lot of trouble having girls not find you attractive, but I havn't. Women think I'm very good looking.
I dated a girl I had a class with in highschool after highschool, and she told me her and another girl would talk about me a lot, thought I was hot. Another girl from highschool i was talking to after my ex left me because I was an abusive alcoholic said that she the same thing.

Another girl I dated during highschool who I went to church with told me that when we were younger and went to church together she would wait for me to walk in, and would watch me from a distance. I didnt even know we went to the same church until she told me.

My point is, I used to sell my self short. Many of you might not realize that there my be girls out there that look at you to, and all you have to do is approach them, and try.

Don't sell yourself short.
 

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VikingKing said:
Actually. This girl isn't ugly, but I'm better looking then her. I bet if me and her hang out and drank a bit she would put out.

You guys need to understand I look masculine.

I mean you guys may have had a lot of trouble having girls not find you attractive, but I havn't. Women think I'm very good looking.
I dated a girl I had a class with in highschool after highschool, and she told me her and another girl would talk about me a lot, thought I was hot. Another girl from highschool i was talking to after my ex left me because I was an abusive alcoholic said that she the same thing.

Another girl I dated during highschool who I went to church with told me that when we were younger and went to church together she would wait for me to walk in, and would watch me from a distance. I didnt even know we went to the same church until she told me.

My point is, I used to sell my self short. Many of you might not realize that there my be girls out there that look at you to, and all you have to do is approach them, and try.

Don't sell yourself short.
Very true
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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